2007-08-26 11:50:23 · 14 answers · asked by varian10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably be very upset and hurt and feel betrayed. The most likely scenario but there are women that would remain in the marriage as long as he either promised to keep his indiscretions as under wraps as possible or to just remain celibate like she would.
2007-08-26 12:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife and I had a long talk about my being gay long before we got married. I wanted kids. This was more than 35 years ago and the only way to have kids was to be married. I have lived with my repressed feelings for all these years but would never have passed up the chance to have kids.
And what would a woman do? Mine married me and we are still married.
2007-08-27 17:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by .*. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One part of the question should be whether he's a practicing gay or not. If he isn't and doesn't intend to be, then she could either remain married to him - platonically - or, if she wants children and wants sex, she should divorce him and find a man who would be interested in her that way. If he's a practicing gay, she should leave him and get tested for AIDS or stay with him and get tested for AIDS but never be intimate with him again - up to her.
2007-08-26 11:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rli R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray
2007-08-26 11:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by HH6 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get the best lawyer she can find and divorce him and take every penny she's entitled to. He was not honest with her prior to marriage so she doesn't owe him a single thing.
Oh.. and get tested for STD's immediately.
2007-08-26 11:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by DK Julie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pray for the relationship and confront him and talk with him about it if you havent done so already. if hes not willing, give him time and let him know you are there for support because after all hes still your husband. maybe you will have to let him go but still be good friends? in this situation, communication, patience, and acceptance are key.
2007-08-26 12:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by www23 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well since I'm not equipped with a penis I'd wish him well, throw him out, throw up, and then laugh my *** off after I got drunk at the bar.
2007-08-26 12:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
an understanding woman would want to still be friends even though there was past history. although she might want to think the whole "shock" part of it over for a couple of days.
2007-08-26 11:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by nvsweetie11 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She would then understand that he is deceitful and not worthy of her! Hopefully she will have the good sense God gave her and leave!!
2007-08-26 11:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sha Sha 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd divorce him but remain friends. But then I would have gotten to know him well enough BEFORE we got married to know he was gay to begin with and never would have married him.
2007-08-26 13:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋