where can i get free help with marrige problems?

Answer 1

If you have about 15 bucks this could work miracles for you...

I usually don't recommend books because I hate it when people recommend them to me, but I honestly wish I could buy "Love & Respect" for every married (and engaged) person I know. So try and hear me out...

It states that a woman's driving need is to feel loved and when she feels loved she feels happy. A man's driving need is to feel respect and when he feels respected he is happy. When a woman feels unloved she acts out disrespectfully to her husband, and when a man feels disrespected he acts out unlovingly towards his wife and the crazy cycle begins.

If this is setting off any light bulbs for you read on...

"I wrote this book out of desperation that was turned into inspiration. As a pastor, I counseled married couples and could not solve their problems. The major problem I heard from wives was, "He doesn't love me." Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love. Many husbands fail to deliver. But as I kept studying Scripture and counseling couples, I finally saw the other half of the equation. Husbands weren't saying it much, but they were thinking, "She doesn't respect me." Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect. Many wives fail to deliver. The result is that five out of ten marriages land in divorce court (and that includes evangelical Christians).

As I wrestled with the problem, I finally saw a connection: without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love. Around and around it goes. I call it the Crazy Cycle - marital craziness that has thousands of couples in its grip."

I am not even half-ways through the book and workbook, and while my husband is not studying the material with me it has already worked miracles in my no-longer-failing marriage.

If you do believe in God I highly recommend this biblically based book. It's not a "religious freak" book or anything but it's nice to know that it is based on things in the bible and not just some theory or pop psychology book, and it's been a #1 seller for over 2 years now... it's working for thousands of couples!

Answer 2

From the Lord, yourself and your partner. You have to dig deep and find the root of your problem. A counselor can tell you what you want to hear or what they see on the outside. But, only the three of the aboved mentioned can solve this.

Answer 3

family.org , christianitytoday.com/marriage , They have two really wonderful books- Love and Respect, Cracking the communication Code you might be able to rent from the library if not buy them they are worth saving your marriage. Go to loveandrespect.com to order the cd's

Answer 4

I don't know where you live. Most cities have churches, and most church pastors or priests know where you can go to get some free counseling. Ask.

Answer 5

Right here, what do you need? If you want in-person help look up marriage counselors, if they can't help you for free, they can recommend where to find help.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

try your local legal aid association first for free help if you qualify and then contact a Paralegal whom is much cheaper than an attorney

Answer 8

If you are religious many churches offer marital counseling. even if you are not, there are still churches out there that will help you.
Good Luck

Answer 9

there are literally thousands of self-help websites on the internet...

do searches...

HOW TO IMPROVE A MARRIAGE
HOW TO REPAIR A MARRIAGE
IMPROVING MARRIAGE SELF-HELP

or...whatever you're looking for.

Answer 10

Friends....family....church leaders