I have two dad who are obviously gay. How do I tell them that I am straight? Is that considered coming of the closet to them?
2007-08-26 11:09:53 · 19 answers · asked by lacrosse13bb 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
gay is wrong its gay
straight is right its straight
so you are on the right side
they are on the wrong side
2007-08-26 11:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by demhavi 2 · 1⤊ 12⤋
Just because you have two dads doesn't mean they assume you will be gay! Give them credit. Having a gay parent or two doesn't make you gay, or more likely to be gay. It doesn't work that way. I would almost guess that by now your dads probably know you are straight. They have probably seen if you have magazines or have walked with you and seen you checking out the opposite sex. Like I said, give them credit. They are your parents after all. I have 2 moms! My sister, brother, and myself are all heterosexual.
2007-08-26 21:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kristi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think they would really care. If you think you would feel better to just come right out and tell them, then sit them both down together and tell them. All they want from you is honesty. That's what I would want from MY kid.
2007-08-26 18:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by ChicagoGuy1977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if they can be gay you can obviously be straight so i would just tell them and would not worry about it
2007-08-26 18:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by ~A, Person~ 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just tell them. It's okay. No ,straight people don't have to come out, because they aren't " in the closet". Don't sweat it kid !!!!!!
2007-08-26 18:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just tell them I am sure they already know that you are not gay. They no doubt just want you to be yourself and be honest.
2007-08-26 18:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by rich 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They dont expect you to be gay. If I had kids I would not expect them to be gay , Its a hard life. But IT IS SOI WORTH IT!
2007-08-26 20:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by lone wolf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they allready assume your straight because thats what everyone assumes about peole....
but I always say...there is more to people then what meets the eye...just because you are male or female doesnt mean you are sexually attracted or want a future with the opposite sex...;)
2007-08-26 18:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
god no that wouldnt be gay or stright nothing wrong with u at all u should be scared to tell him ur stright im sure he can understand cuz its not weired to him im sure he sees stright ppl all the time i wash my dad was gay so i cna come out to himcuz im gay
2007-08-26 18:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by McLovin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I think all LGBT people are more accepting than anyone else. They don't "expect" you to be gay. They want you to be who you are. If you're straight, great! No real need to tell them. (Most people assume you are heterosexual anyways). (When I say you, I don't mean you individually, I mean anyone).
2007-08-26 18:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Just be truthfull , I am sure they will be very happy for you , that you know what you want for your life . The other road is sometimes harder , ( having to tell them your gay ) . Good luck .
2007-08-26 18:15:48 · answer #11 · answered by kennyt9201 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋