i've been with the guy i'm planning to wed for over 3 yrs now. we have recently been having problems about my past in our relationship. i'm looking to find out infomation on online couseling and in person counseling. do you know a good web site that i can look at for either couseling or groups that would be helpful? for the online couseling it would have to be not to expensive. please let me know about these things if you have infomation on them.
2007-08-26 11:03:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i have been talking to him about it for the whole time we have been going out. and now it is caousing a big problem. if you are just going to judge me then don't answer... i'm just asking about relationship couseling!
2007-08-26 11:17:17 · update #1
and the thing about the secret kids? wtf? we have been trying to have kids for OVER a year and we are having trouble getting preg. so no secret kids. and he knows who i've been with and all that... it's to much to explain everything. just give me some info. on couseling please.
2007-08-26 11:20:04 · update #2
Online counseling lacks the interpersonaltouch that comes with in person counseling.I have done inter relationship counseling over many years but would never ever even consider trying it on line. There are many places that offer it but personally recommend a church you belong to. The biggest thing is that the two of you must enter it with a open heart and mind to do whatever it takes to achieve a common goalsuch as saving the relationship for counsling to work. Good luck
2007-08-26 11:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LivePerson's skilled Marriage Counseling experts are ready to give you immediate help online! folks who lie about who they are and even worse could prove threatening if you meet in person.Online counseling lacks the interpersonaltouch that comes with in person counseling.I have done inter relationship counseling over many years but would never ever even consider trying it on line. There are many places that offer it but personally recommend a church you belong to. The biggest thing is that the two of you must enter it with a open heart and mind to do whatever it takes to achieve a common goalsuch as saving the relationship for counsling to work. Good luck .........relationship counselling perth
2014-08-07 22:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alot of great online counseling if you look. I wish I could tell you one by name but if you search hard enough, you should find one. As for myself, I'm not a profession counselor otherwise I would be more then happy to help you. Through my own experiences, if a relationship is to grow, bringing up conflicting times from ones past, is such a waste of time. In order to move forward together, alot of stuff from the past must be put to rest. Otherwise the relationship will not survive in a healthy way and it might even fall apart.
2007-08-26 11:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nadyne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know of no such web site but i would offer caution as any reputable therapist would need to meet with both of you and establish knowledge of you both and how you approach life and problems.
many communities offer servies and they have offer sliding scale fees for services so you might start with your doctor or some other professional in medicine. i think you will find it money well spent for such a serious problem.
if you go to church, many pastors are trained to help but it depends on the education of the pastor and qualifications. some tend to simply issues, IMO.
good luck to you both and i hope the issue are resolved before you marry as they are likely to only increase and that would be a strain on your marriage and success.
2007-08-26 11:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 04:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by shanika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 3 years, you have not talked to him about it, and now he dont like it? :) Well, i guess he has serious reasons not to like it. Too much b/fs before? Or some secret kids?
2007-08-26 11:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋