My wife and I went to a pool party with one of her friends from work. He is openly gay and people brought him nude gay magazines which he left out on the table for viewing. My wife told me to look because all the women were saying WOW. I looked and was actually starting to get aroused! I almost wanted to see it "LIVE"!! Does this mean Im bi??
2007-08-26 10:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That all depends. You were getting aroused by looking at them and imagining seeing them live, right? Have you ever wanted to actually do those things with another guy? That is the question you need to ask yourself. I know you can't do anything with another guy b/c you're married, but have you thought about it. Have you daydreamed about being sexual with another guy? If the answer is "yes" then yes, you are bi. If the answer is "no" then you are probably not bi. My suggestion is to sit down and think about what it was about the magazine photos that got you "excited". Then you'll have your answer. Good luck.
2007-08-26 11:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by ChicagoGuy1977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell us the rest of your thoughts. But then that would get you in trouble with the wife. Thoughts like: you were hoping that this could turn into an orgy and you might get some of Bob's wife because she is hot. That is real reason you getting hot.
2007-08-26 18:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Zdaddysdinosaurs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wife's coworker, he's depicted as if "gay", yet seeks women to attend his parties, incl. married women to be accompanied by their husbands. His buddies conveniently arrange magazines of naked males for viewing and consideration. Your wife requested/demanded that you take a look "because all the women were saying WOW.". Now ask yourself, before jumping to any conclusion of your own bisexuality/bicuriosity (apparently motivated by wife at this point), does this not appear as a setup?
(1) Your wife, by your own statements were perfectly comfortable with the setting.
(2) You wife sought to inspire you to ponder the images of naked males.
(3) Your wife's friends, according to your description, include gay males (likely bisexual males of hidden interest in your wife and other women).
(4) You admitted to some unexpected arousal, but it were post-revelation of purported female excitement regarding the situation. Note, that for your wife to have expressed such interest, else interest that you take a look, she therefore had to know with certainty contents of inclusive photos, therefore she possessed thorough understanding of the issues at hand.
(5) Likely your wife not merely of bisexual stature/interest, but desires your adoption of same, likely to convince her of less guilt for her desires, possibly to encite some future mutual aspiration towards some polyamory/bisexuality, maybe even cause you to perform with a male before her company, else view her in some akin setting, possible even of multiple participants.
My advice, send her to counseling/therapy, or consider other options.
2007-08-26 18:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Blah Blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily, different people get aroused by different things. It doesn't give you a distinct sexual orientation. I mean you should start to think about it if you started masturbating to men, but simple pictures I don't think so.
2007-08-26 18:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably learn what your strongest traits are concerning your sexual life before too long. Relax go for the ride and realize most people are somewhat openminded and most closed minded people are that way only concerning themselves.
2007-08-26 18:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a distinct possibility, honey.
It would take some more looking into, on your part, if you are wanting to be sure for yourself.
No fear, honey. :)
2007-08-26 18:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since biSEXual is the term, maybe. Bi-curious would be something to stick with until you're sure.
2007-08-26 18:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by MacabreLAM 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No ...........but the flesh likes it all............Gay people just want to turn everyone their way if they could ..........or why would they bring a magazine??..............sick minds
2007-08-26 18:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask your wife's friend?
2007-08-26 22:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um u could be but ur probly just curious
2007-08-26 18:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by McLovin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋