2007-08-26 09:09:44 · 13 answers · asked by whisper2ya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be honest I have never been jealous of a boyfriend getting a lap dance, I actually have bought a dance for my boyfriend and I have watched guys get a dance. As for it lasting 5 minutes - could be since it is usually the length of a song.
I just do not worry about it, I would rather know than not.
2007-08-26 09:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by nightdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Since you told him you were ok with it, you really cant be mad that he went..u cant really expect much more from a strip club then a bunch of sleezy skeezers dancing on your man. HOWEVER, you can LET that part go and tell him that you letting him go was just a 1 time thing for his 18th birthday. You dont feel comftorble with him there all together and it would mean alot if he didnt go..even if he has coupons. ((Btw i dont think strip clubs give coupons for lap dances..just drinks in which that case he could jus get the special at a regular bar)) If you ask him to not go and tell him u dont feel comftorble and he goes anyways then maybe being with him is something you should reconsider especially after 1 yr he doesnt respect you enough to go behind your back.
2016-05-18 03:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by dorene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,,,yess...I know..it's all good fun, it's just a lapdance right??? WRONG! I have a bf and if he did this I'd kick his f'king teeth in. That's just disrespectful. I wouldn't do it to him either. Why would your boyfriend feel the need to get a lapdance? Or is he passing it off as one of his friends paid for it yadda yadda? It's still BS, it's not right and although it's not really something to break up over, I'd still raise hell about it and probably break up with him anyway. I'd have trust issues.
2007-08-26 09:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and his best friend occasionally go to strip clubs and get lap dances. I don't care one bit- I trust him to not do anything inappropriate.
2007-08-26 09:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id give him a lap dance and maybe more ; )then ask what he liked more
2007-08-26 09:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by strangledachicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was mad wen my bf told me dat but like 15 million ppl told me dat he told da gurl he had a gf so i 4gave his sorry *** but eitha way dats not cool it makes u wonder where ya trust lies
2007-08-26 09:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by hot mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could have watched...... Thats good he is Honest with you great quality
2007-08-26 09:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mindi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be miffed ...... However you should ask him how she did it... ask him to show you ..... then tease him with the moves infront of his friends ....... kind of a turn about thing !
2007-08-26 09:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I guess I might ask him what she was actually doing, clothing ON presumably, then I would try to do that for him.
2007-08-26 09:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... was the lap dance from you???
2007-08-26 09:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋