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I am so sorry!! i feel awful! if i were u every nite before i went to bed i would pray and ask the lord forgive me for all the wrong things i have done and plz understand that i accept any disicon u make and evetually realy understand why this is hapening to me.

dear U, I AM REALLY SORRY!! I NO HOW U FEEL!

2007-08-26 16:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by amber 2 · 0 1

You don't say how old you are or why you've only got two years, but there are some things everyone needs to do reguardless of the time left. Let the people you care about know you really care.You can never say I love you too much. Sit down and write letters or make them a DVD, something they can keep. Make little gifts to go with the letters or DVD's. Write to any one who has done you badly, tell them you forgive them, write any one you may have hurt and say your sorry. Those will mean more than anything.
If you have the ability to travel sit down with an atlas and really think over what you would like to see. I think one extended trip say a couples week long in one place is better than short trips. You never really have the time to see everything and maybe find little shops to search through for that perfect little gift for someone at home. You also can get to know the people more and the locals are the ones who can tell you where to shop, eat, and things you might find interesting that aren't in a tourist guide. Remember it doesn't have to be in another country. We have some of the most beautiful places in the world right here in the states. I would guess you've had second opions about your condition, if not do so you never know. If your female (or for that fact even males have their hair done too) have you ever wanted to be a blond, redhead, have it super short, super long (weave)? Ever wanted to be a singer? There are places where you can record your own CD. Ever wanted to be a writer, you've got your computer and you only need your fingers and mind to do that.
Have you ever thought about getting a tatoo. Learning to, ride a horse, a motorcycle, climb mountains, ski, surf. hang glide. Jump out of a plane, bungee jump. A lot of these things can be expensive but some aren't. If you have money tucked away for a rainy day, now is your time. Have you been to all the museum in your area, what about the parks, amusement or other? I know this is rather long, but live life to the fullest each day, leave behind the memories that will say "man he/she loved life and he/she loved us", and every time they think of you a smile will come to their faces. May you find joy, love, happiness, peace, excitement, and just a devil of a good time, may your good days be long and full, and your bad days be short yet filled with love.

2007-08-26 17:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by WACVET75 7 · 0 0

I could ask how old are you, but that is rude, illness you are suffering from? that is personal. So what I will suggest is for you to look around and see who you could benefit, if you have any skills, money, then use that to help others, raise money for charity etc. become a volunteer of some sort. I am a therapist and don't believe in such predictions again depends on your situation.
My advice, take up any of the above, bringing a smile on someones face is the only thing you will remember when the time comes. Sebastian

2007-08-26 16:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0 0

Wow, i can't imagine how you must feel.

Well, I know for sure i wouldn't sit at home all day.
First off I would do something that I've always aimed for, like in my case travel around the world or something..
Then would spend time with the people I love the most, but I wouldnt get all depressed about myself..because then people would pity me and I wouldn't want to make tham sad. I would go to church, because I am Catholic, and try to fix all the bad things I've done, and maybe apologize to a few people. I really dont know, that's a tough one. Just live your life to the fullest and do everything you've always wanted to do.
I hope you get much more than 2 years..miracles happen.

2007-08-26 16:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by 4 · 0 0

Sorry to hear this.
Write down say ten things that you would like to achieve, and start visitin and achievin, does not matter how silly they are or how hard it may seem, maybe with one or two of the activities you can do for charity and support the illness you have u never know this may help find a cure, maybe not in your lifetime but for the future.
what ever you decide to do my best wishes go with you XX

2007-08-26 16:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by diamondjade 6 · 0 0

Well,first of all,i'd ignore the death sentence..Doctors,consultants etc are pretty good but sometimes they get things wrong and they don't have the right to tell anyone how long they've got..Live with a positive attitude and allow a strong mind to take over your illness rather than the illness taking over your mind....xx

2007-08-26 16:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by trish b 7 · 1 0

Make a wish list and achieve one wish a week.All the things you always wanted to do no matter how big or small.Then go to all the major lenders and loan yourself up to the hilt and have fun spending it Sharing the good times with all your family and friends.

2007-08-26 16:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by Niamh 7 · 0 0

I wouldn't DO anything!
I'd do whatever I like!
I'd do only things I enjoy doing
I'd draw all day, I'd go out with friends ... honestly, I think I'd be relieved, because I wouldn't have to worry about the future, and I wouldn't have to plan anything ...
I'd read a lot ...
oh .. and I definitely wouldn't tell anyone about my situation ...
but I'm single, no kids ... I guess it all depends on who is it you're leaving behind

2007-08-26 16:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by tricky 5 · 0 0

Try and put more details of your problem here-then maybe people can offer you better advice and help.
But in general,try and stay active ,go on holidays & spend time with those you like the most.Your doctor may refer you to a psychologist who you can talk things through with.Best wishes to you.

2007-08-26 16:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by mr.bigz 6 · 0 0

I'm really sorry to hear your news. Please feel free to e.mail me if you need someone to talk to. I was diagnoesed with breast cancer 8 years ago (I'm ok now), and thought that I wasn't going to make it so I can appreciate a little of what you are going through.

First I'd accept Jesus as my Saviour, then I'd make provision for my kids and take them on holiday - if I was well enough. I'd want to spend lots of quality time with them.
You have to make the most of the time you have left and not worry about the mundane. (Even the word mundane is boring!)

2007-08-26 16:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by nettyone2003 6 · 1 2

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