I dont want ANYTHING to do with husband's family! I cant stand them and they cant stand me.Too much has been said and done for me to ever wantto speak in a civil manner with any of them again....How can this be worked out?Has anyone ever gotten a divorce because of this?
2007-08-26 08:39:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give the familly the boot talk 2 them likr U MEAN IT other wise theyll keep steeping on u again and again. dont be afriad to stand up. the family must have resons y they dont like if ur hubby comes onto aagrrement w/ them i would say 2 get the divorce
2007-08-26 09:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by blondie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, this never really works itself out. Sometimes someone close in the family will die and everyone will come together for the funeral and vow to treat each other better because life is too short but for the most part, this is the death of most marriages, so you'll probably end up divorced as well.
2007-08-26 15:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get divorced over this, but I had a very strong dislike for my mother in law. She's a cold, rude person and I tried to stay away from her as much as possible. Can you talk to your husband and tell him how you feel and see if he has any suggestions to try to make things better? You should be his number one priority and he should do his best to try and facilitate at least a passable relationship between you and his family.
2007-08-26 15:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately feel where you are coming from and am in the same place myself. Except that my husbands uncle is the problem, always calling the cops on my teenage children. I asked him just yesterday if he was for real married to me or his family because if we were going to continue the arguements over the same B.S. he could go back home to live with them and me and my children would be ok with out him.I wouldnt have a problem "tucking tail and running" in the other direction. YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART.Only you know how you feel.
2007-08-26 15:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as far as getting it worked out we don't know the problem how does your husband feel about what is going on does he talk to you about it. If he stands behind you I am sure things will work out fine sometimes things take time. Be patient and hold your ground if it is something you belive in sometimes inlaws get into alot of business they have no business in.
2007-08-26 15:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by ~~Just me~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it's so sad. It's a huge thing to overcome in a marriage, especially if you live in the same city. You just know your spouse will want to stay in touch with his siblings and probably his parents leaving you out in left field.
Unless their is a reconcilliation between you and his folks I would give great odds your marraige is doomed.
2007-08-26 15:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by sailorboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problems with the inlaws were a MAJOR factor in me getting divorced. The only way it's going to be resolved is if your spouse is willing to truly listen to your complaints and be sensitive to your feelings, to set boundaries with his/her family to make you feel comfortable. Otherwise, you will be headed for divorce court like I was. Good luck!
2007-08-26 16:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an easy situation , not for you, not for ur husband. You can take a distance from is family, he ....no. For him its more difficult then for you.He is standing between you and his family.
Talk to with ur husband , when you love each other , you gone find a solution.
wish u luck
2007-08-26 16:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by justonpc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give things time. In time, your husband's family will learn to accept you, or at least tolerate you.
Don't get divorced over it. It would be tragic if you let someone's dislike of you ruin your marriage.
2007-08-26 15:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but he should take a stand for you and if necessary put some distance between you guys and his family.
2007-08-26 16:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋