I cant have kids and they said if did they would die cause of such severe bad alleriges of mine and asthma ok such a shame correction i have know since i was about 8 i had always looked forward to being able to hold one that was mine.
2007-08-26 08:16:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i would love ot have kids i love them i hav eaways watched kids grow up by baby-sitting and to know ill neve rha eone of my own well that hurts
the docs are posiitve
2007-08-26 08:21:51 · update #1
i know kids are important but they are more to me ive always watched kids and had to watch them grow up and know that i will never hav eone of my own blood to watch grow up
ive though about adopting kids a lot
2007-08-26 08:24:46 · update #2
There is more to life than having children. Any man that bases that on a relationship is to shallow to worry about anyway.
2007-08-26 08:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by jen 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your problems, Life sure does kick some people hard.
The fact that a woman couldn't have kids would not put me off dating / marrying her one bit. Its the person not her biological chemistry that attracts me. There would be other ways we could fulfill a parenting role if that was important to her.
I wouldn't worry too much, if the guy loves you and respects you for being you, then not being able to have kids won't put them off.
2007-09-03 15:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by segunitb1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to network. There are guys who are sterile owing to childhood disease. And a lot of third-world children waiting for adoptive parents. But you can't really expect a guy who can procreate to marry a woman who can't. Love is love,but having kids is very,very important. Look at the longing you feel. You need to find some guy in the same boat and make a little baby happy and loved forever.
2007-08-26 15:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Galahad 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that honey, I would definitely marry a women that can't have kids, and I know plenty guys out there would because I never want kids anyway.
2007-08-26 17:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately......Kids do NOT have to be what marriage is all about......build a strong relationship and be happy with that and remember you can always adopt or be a foster parent!
2007-08-26 15:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I personally cant stand kids and don't wish to be involved with anybody and their children. If they are grown up kids that is one thing but the baby screaming and torn up house mania is not for me!I'm a lesbian btw. My ex wanted babies. I told her I wouldn't leave her and I would try to help out with it but that I honestly did not wish for that sort of mess in my life. I would date you because it is a guarantee.
2007-09-03 12:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was a guy, yes I would..and if you really want kids there are million of kids who need a home.
2007-09-02 23:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always adopt and I don't see why it would be a big issue if someone cares about you
2007-08-26 15:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Raistlin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure I problably dont want kids anyway
2007-08-26 15:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by ChuckDeucez 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would date her, as long there is love between us, that is what matters the most.
2007-08-26 15:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ben N 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋