When I do the laundry, its just gross, she is gross, she is a slob and after 3 years of marriage I might divorce her!
2007-08-26 07:49:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This isn't a question. If you think she is disgusting then divorce her. She deserves to be with someone who respects her, skid marks and all.
2007-08-26 07:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You want to leave her because she leaves skid marks in her panties? If this bothers you so much then tell her, she deserves to know how you feel about her. Stop doing her laundry if it grosses you out so much. They are dirty clothes for a reason and if something like that bothers you so much then stop doing the laundry. But you can't feel this way about your wife without telling her. If she is lacking on hygiene then maybe it will give her a hint but it sounds like you have a lot more problems than just laundry.
Good Luck!
2007-08-26 07:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by julia b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Biology is destiny. Bodies naturally make a bit of mess. Get over it.
This is not a good reason for divorce, but if you carry this attitude around with you all the time then she will probably leave you. Possibly some couples counseling will help. Good luck!
Some women choose to use disposable panty liners so any discharge or fart residue will be trapped by the liner and not reach the panty material. That is a technical solution, but it sounds like your problems go much deeper than that.
2007-08-26 07:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this is such a problem to you, this might work. I do it myself. I don't put my panties in the hamper, but into a lingerie bag I keep in the closet. Whenever I do a load of sleepwear, I put the panties in with it. However, I do wash my husbands briefs and as they are all black, I never notice any skidmarks. By the way, I do wash thoroughly to keep clean there. What if you were hit by a bus and had to go to the hospital! Anyway, tell her that from now on you are both going to wash your own underwear. Don't hurt her feelings, just say I prefer to see your panties on you, not off.
2007-08-26 08:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lean on Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What man doesn't leave skid marks in his boxers? I can speak for a large percentage of wives on here and say that men do all kinds of gross things, we are used to it! Yeah, it's gross, but love means never being disgusted. If you love her (and you married her, so you must!) then you should not be disgusted by her! Men (all of them!) do so many disgusting things and look how many guys still have wives. It's because most people are mature enough to love their spouses for who they are.
2007-08-26 07:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by princesspink 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've done plenty of laundry and I've never seen a woman leave skid marks....
...BUT...
I've known women who ARE without a doubt just plain PIGS.
They have no sense of being clean, leave stuff laying around, don't clean up after themselves, don't know how to wipe off a counter or table after a meal, and that's just the tip of the iceberg.......it's nasty, and then they expect you to go sniffin' around their crotch to give them pleasure and they act like they are doing you a favor?!?!
Ummm.......no fvckin' way.
You dirty-a$$ women need to be thrown into a hole and hosed off and taught some manners and personal hygiene.
and they p!ss and moan that we guys are slobs.....sheesh.....ummm, not all of us!
Maybe it's no reason to get divorced, but if she's that bad, then you should talk to her. People shouldn't be leaving skid marks....men or women! Maybe she has a problem.....but if she just doesn't give a rat's a$$.....then....
2007-08-26 08:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is an unpleasant thing to see all the time, and since it bothers you so much and you're contemplating leaving, perhaps it's more than just the underwear that is annoying you. If you truely loved her it would bug you but not to this level. So there must be a lack of something in your marriage or you could just think it was cute!
2007-08-26 07:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tanya L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, would you rather have skid marks on you? Ok, she's a slob...you each do your own laundry then.
2007-08-26 09:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck I bet your nasty underwear has skid marks too. So best idea is judge yourself first. Skid marks arent grounds for divorce anyway. The judge would laugh you out of court.
2007-08-26 07:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both men are women are guilty of this! If this bothers you so much, make her wash her own underwear. Or you could just quit being a big whiny baby and invest in some wipes. Many households use wipes instead of toilet paper. Its purely a matter of preference.
2007-08-26 08:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. Get over yourself man. How shallow are you? Never mind. Your question answered that. Yes. Do her a favor and pay for a divorce. So she can be with someone who adores her as they should. By the way, you are the one that does that am sure. Not her.
2007-08-26 08:04:11 · answer #11 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋