What do you think you could do to change the level of complication in your life? Do you think you can control it by changing things, or do you believe life will be less complicated over time?
2007-08-26 07:01:41 · 14 answers · asked by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
This is not a self-help question. The purpose of this question to get some insight on how others' perceived their lives.
2007-08-27 01:48:08 · update #1
I like this question alot. The thing is, everyone's life is complicated. Weather this b good or bad, we really have no control over it. For example, if you wait "over time" for your problems to b fixed, they might, but "over time", won't you just get new ones? It is possible to take control of complications, but we must remember that we are only human, and we do not know the future, so, really, every moment of our life has already been planned out. So while taking control of your life can and will help, new complications can form by the choices and every action we make. So, is life complicated? YES!!!! LOL, but that's just the way it is. and that's why we have to look over these complications and enjoy the small gifts in life.
2007-08-26 07:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were to stop and think about it, then yes, my life has been complicated. However, when I experience my life, from second to second, it is not complicated. When I just stop stressing, relax and let my instincts take over, when it comes to dealing with everyday situations, things just seem to work out. The present moment, this exact second, is not complicated at all, so make the decision required for this second, and don't worry about the future until it is actually time to deal with it.
You will notice that all the worries you have are either about the past or the future, however, this second, this moment is the only place that you can make a difference.
2007-08-27 01:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by driving_blindly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We complicate it by making all sort of arbitrary rules about what life "must" be, such as: I must be a winner at any cost I have to look perfect or my spouse won't love me. There must be a hard and fast system for everything, or everything will fall apart. Staying alert but not alarmed, being tuned in to people over processes, will ultimately make things run more smoothly and feel less complicated. LIfe is simple. Be good to others and do the best that you can. so, KISS it will be good.
2016-05-18 02:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes life is complicated
I am doing what I think as a solution to change the level of complication in my life.
Yes it seems that things will change and I believe that life will be less complicated over time.
2007-08-26 16:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things are complicated based on ones perspective. How often are we asking ourselves why people with more money than they can spend, still have problems? Depending on ones view of the situation, it can be difficult or simple. If one just accepts not to worry over things they have no control over, they will be less stressed. If one is knowledgeable enough to maintain control and be vigilant over things they do have control over, they will also have less stress. For example, a tire goes flat while you are driving in the car. Yes, you get upset, yes you cures, and even ask "what am I going to do about this?" Well, when you realize that tires are made of rubber, and that nails can penetrate them, there are pot holes in the roads, and that tires are not meant to last forever, you can breathe in and say, ok, well, I have to put the spare tire on and get to the mechanic right away to either get the tire fixed or replaced. For financial emergencies, it is wise to have an emergency fund established for expenses that are not planned for. As long as you know there is a comfort cushion for yourself, it will be less stressful. A positive outlook is immensely helpful, it can not prevent bad things from happening, but you will be better able to deal and move on.
2007-08-26 07:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my life has become a lot less complicated I think since I've gotten older. Maybe it's just that I've learned how to deal with more things.
i finally got a job that i want, I'm married, I'm expecting a baby (which might make things more complicated once he gets here), and I'm finding more out about the kinds of things I really enjoy doing and I'm not as worried about making other people happy.
2007-08-26 07:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I choose to live my life according to my own way. If I choose to think it's complicated and always in a mess, I will never lead a happy life. If I take things simply, I will enjoy myself more and not put so much stress upon myself.
2007-08-26 15:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by UnspokenShadow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just live it as it comes along and do with what you have and can do. trying to change it to make it less complicated so that there will be less complications will just make it more complex therefore adding more complications of trying to rid of existing complications. why add on complications to an already complex life?
2007-08-26 07:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is like floating on a pile of sticks, sometimes are chill ,sometimes you get tossed. Try meditation,and remember the moment you surrender control you are already defeated.
2007-08-26 07:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by atomic p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
complicated like hell!
hopefully when i leave high skool n discover the world on my own it should become less complicated =]
2007-08-26 07:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Trixx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋