i have to know please cause i argued with my friends and they keep doing this and im really upset about it and i dont have a clue what to say to them
2007-08-26 05:52:05 · 21 answers · asked by FALL_OUT_GIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know this will be hard to hear but maybe they arent such good of friends my suggestion is to hang out with a few other people so they know your not needy upon them. they might just realize how much they like you being around when your not there.
2007-09-03 05:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by *Kala* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, this is a hurtful thing that these "so-called friends" are doing, and the saddest thing is that you are feeding them by becoming so upset because to do this and know that the other person is upset is downright cruel. If I were you I would pay no attention to them, people like this make you feel insecure and even a little crazy so you end up coming across as unreasonable and a bit cuckoo. I would simply take them off my MSN friends list and take that power away from then, if they were any kind of friends to you then they would contact you.If they don't then move on, don't live your life by someone elses set of rules and set your own standards at what you want in a friend.. Hope this helps and good luck...
2007-09-03 01:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by patlynn2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They would not be a friend of mine for long.
I would bar them from my MSN list for a while That way they won't see when you are on line or sign in as invisible, you would be able to see when they log on. Try ignoring them for a while and see how they like it.
You could do as the person above me has said. It would ruin their little game.
If they continue to keep it up then I think I would be finding some new friends.
2007-08-28 10:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you argued and fell out and have not made up then this is prob just a game to them because they know it will get you down,....move on and make new friends show the ones playing games you have moved on and are happy dont let people who are like this upset you...
2007-08-30 13:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's hurtful, but remember that if they are going to be this petty, they are actually only disadvantaging themselves by signing off when you are online, they are only trying to hurt you, act like you haven't even noticed, if they are not mature enough to be sensible about it then don't stoop to their level. They obviously still want to be your friend otherwise they wouldn't be going out of their way to upset you, just make it clear that you aren't going to respond to these petty tactics. Give them time to get bored then talk to them reasonably and apologise, even if u were in the right it is worth it to be friends again and they will then probably say sorry too.
In the meantime, if it makes you feel better, don't sign off when they do, stay online, it may wind them up as they can't appear online again as you've ruined their game, and it will show them that you aren't bothered by their nastiness and it will make them look/feel stupid.
2007-08-28 04:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Thneedloverz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go onto a different name, like ask a friend to use their name and talk to her. she may be more mad at you for doing that but it will be an easier way to figure out why she is mad at you. if that doesn't work at all, then you should ignore them for a while and maybe they will come around. it is really hard for when people do this to you. but you have to know sooner or later why they keep getting upset with you. I am sure if you talk to them and be understanding that your friendship with them won't be runied. Just talk to them and see what is wrong. you need to know sooner or later and if you don't then it will bug you even more. take this advice and talk to them. listen to what they have to say cause sooner or later you will find out. and if it is not from them it is from some one else and you could get even more mad.
2007-09-03 04:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by micki122m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why you want to go spoil your head over these people" said a wise man who didn't speak english as a first language
What I mean is they're game playing, they're bullying you, they're excluding you for childish reasons and I think they might be rubbish
Take yourself away from these people and find some friends who don't make you feel doubt. Find some people who support you and don't manipulate you. I know they're out there because I've seen the whole girly viscous thing and I now choose friends who talk about making art and music and writing, we talk about books and films and how to get chewing gum out of the dogs' fur
...the world has too much in it to waste time creating misery out of nothing
The only power you have in this situation is to turn away from them and be brilliant without them (c;
2007-09-03 04:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by redleaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you sign off when I sign on?, is it cause you are talking about me, and scaried I find out or are you intimidated by my good looks???? Persoanly I would embress them on line in front of the whole world!! but thats just my evil twisted side comming out to play
2007-08-26 06:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe dey not signing out, just appearing offline so u wnt no dey dere, dont worry it will pass, deys a million other people you can talk to, especially on msn come-on, if they keep signing out, take the hint and forget them, if u cnt den ure nt really dat strong r u, stand on ur own two feet and stop depending n ur frends to make u happi,,,,if i wer u i wuldnt evn notice that dey sign out,
2007-08-27 00:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Xx~lovely~xX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There not a friend if this is a game their playing Why are you worried about what to say to them...If they keep popping off every time you log on ....Make some new friends that value your friendship......
2007-08-26 06:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by valf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋