i lieve with my fiancee for 4 years.he is working in a computer company and he is making a lot of money.we hqave a good life.my mum she had a brain attack and she made surgery .now she is ok.my fiancee he is in L.A and me i came 6 month sto see my mum...and i am still here....she tells me that if i lieve ishe will dye without me.i am 23 years old and i still study dentall assistant...i want so much to finish and be what i study because i love my proffesion.i came to see them in greece and everybody tells me i need to stay with her,,,,what i do people...i will loose everything if i go!
2007-08-26 05:26:01 · 7 answers · asked by mkgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your mum wants to be with you tell her to sell her house and everything she owns and move to where you are tell her to buy or rent a home near you. You need to get on with your life.My son is a couple years older then you and it kills me that he lives in a different state then me but i would never ever make him feel guilty about not being with me.I remember what it was like at your age i wanted to get away from my parents and find my own way in life.That's what you need to do for yourself.
2007-08-26 05:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart she sounds like she is just lonely and you can not put off your life and dreams to become her mate. She will be ok with family up there. They can take turns and be with her and you can visit her on time off from school.(vacations and holidays. As for this fiance(4years?) Whats up with that why not married yet. See you have to focus on your life right now. She loves you and will understand once you have your education, become a wife, and make her a grandma. Which you could bring up. Tell her that you are trying to make her a grandma and you want to bring her grandkids on one of your future visits. She will think about that and be ok with it. Question though is she going to die soon. If she is I would stay with her. You and your fiance waited four years whats a 5th. But if you know medically she will be fine till you finish your education and get married I would stay where you are.
2007-08-26 12:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help your mom find a Certified Nursing Assistant, and move on. You have your life to live, and if you help her and forget about everything in your life where does that leave you when she is no longer here? I don't think your willing to give up your fiance, career, and your mother shouldn't ask that of you either. she is just scared and let her know that you are only a phone call away if she needs someone to talk to, and just help her find a nurse to take care of things for her when she needs it.
2007-08-26 12:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a brain attack? Do you love your fiance for him or for the $$$ he's pulling in? Not to be rude but your mom's recent health concern sounds like a way for her to pull you back home. You do what is right for you. Your mom is not going to die without having you by her side. Pehaps you can fly your parents over to see you and your fiance. She can see what you have worked so hard for and accomplished.
2007-08-26 12:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you her only child? Your siblings and other family members should help out. She is wrong to tell you she will die if you leave. You have taken care of her a lot, you should plan to visit regularly and then go back to your life with your fiancee.
2007-08-26 12:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Summer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop letting your mom control you and go back home. I mean to your bf and not your mom. She is manipulating you into staying with her. She will not die if you leave her. go and finish your studies and your mom will come around.
2007-08-26 12:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by chris d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love a person include loving all in the family
2007-08-26 12:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by lost man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋