Me and my husband had sex and he kept pulling my hair and calling me a dirty $!ut.He goes extremely hard too. He asks me if i "like it like that". He sounds really mean and sometimes its a little scary. I don't want to hurt his feelings.
2007-08-26 04:53:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him what you like and don't like. Sex is a mutual thing. Both of you need to be happy and satisfied with your love life. Sounds like he's experimenting and you need to speak up. tell him your fantasies etc.
2007-08-26 04:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a $lut how can you even think that.Your husband is being very disrespectful to you you need to put a stop to it now before he get more violent with you and he will make no mistake about that. He will because you are letting him do what he wants.Another way to look at this most men when they have fantasy's like that go to prostitutes because they are afraid to ask their wives to do what they want done their biggest worries are you might look down on them or think they are weird so if you your biggest worries are feeling like your a $lut put that right out of your mind.What goes on between a husband and wife is their business and no one else.You free your mind and have fun.
2007-08-26 12:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you enjoy it then nothing is wrong with it and because he is your husband whatever you two do is okay and does NOT make you a $lut.
My husband enjoys doing this (calling my a dirty $lut, pulling hair, etc) to me sometimes and I love it.
2007-08-26 13:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, of course you're not...This is your husband you're talking about, so talk to him about how this makes you feel and be done with the whole thing. I'm not really a fan of those times of "games" anyway for just that reason, but I'm sure he didn't really mean to hurt you or your feelings in the process. You both should express yourselves differently until you feel better about things.
2007-08-26 15:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like it, dont let him do it!! tell him it bothers you. i know i like it like that, but just because i do doesnt mean everyone else will. maybe your husband has it in his head that is somethng you like, but tell him if its not. also, dont take it personally. he doesnt really think your a slut, and he doesnt want to hurt you, he just wants to get a little dirty. making love with i love yous and your the best can be nice, but sometimes you just want rough and not as sweet sex. nothing wrong with it, unless YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH IT!! Don't klet him continue to do something to you that you find makes him scary.
2007-08-26 12:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by ocean's mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that you really don't enjoy the way he is doing it. and if he doesn't stop, teach him a lesson. next time you are having sex, get on all fours, doggy style (this position will be easier for you to do this), and when he starts getting rough, get rough back. reach between your legs, grab a hold of his balls and dig in. Don't try to kill him but lets some nails dig in a little and squeeze firmly. this should slow him down. and the more he persists, the harder you squeeze. I promise he will stop. and when he gets mad at you. let him know. I asked you to stop. he will know that it is his fault.
2007-08-26 12:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by AtRisk 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whether you are a $lut or not, if you are treated in a way that makes you FEEL like a $lut, then the behavior is inappropriate. talk to him about it.
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2007-08-26 12:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think a slut. He sounds like he has a lot of anger in him. You need to stop him before he decides to do something worse like choking you. It's not a matter of hurting his feelings. Sex is to be mutually satisfying. It does not sound like you are getting anything but being assaulted.
2007-08-26 12:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by chief8166 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, the hair pulling is a bit much.
You aren't a sl8t for letting your husband be with you.
2007-08-26 12:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it tell him. Who cares about hurting his feelings. You have to think about your feelings first. Look at how you are thinking about yourself when he does that. And the answer is NO you are not.
2007-08-26 12:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by leela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋