my friend got pregant and does not know what to do, do you have any advice
2007-08-26 02:37:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Convince her to talk to her parents about it.
She should know what she's getting into.
2007-08-26 02:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Vawewia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Well, my friend was 14 when she got pregnant too. First she needs to think about what she wants to do....keep it or put it up for adoption. Then she needs to sit down with her parents, tell them she is prego, then discuss what she would like to do with the baby with her parents.
They are her parents and they love her so they will prob. be mad at first so she should tell them at night. That way they wont be angry with her all day and everyone will all have time to sleep on it.
Good luck with everything.
2007-08-26 02:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by 8 mo old baby girl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
14 honestly is so young!! i had my boys at 19 nearly 20 and they where planned.
you miss out on so much. My 21st birthday was filled with nappies and spew. And all i ever wanted was a black and red ball.
Somedays it upsets me that i see my friends got to go and party all the time and im doing the house work. But I do love my twins and my partner is wonderful.
At 14 your too young to vote, own a house, drink alcohol, so why would you want to have a family???
I dont mean to sound nasty but i couldnt do it.
2007-08-26 02:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not the end of her life and it happens.
Now, she needs to talk to her parents or legal guardians. They need to be together on this, there are lots of options for her.
She is still a child so she should not go this alone; you should tell your parents too because you should get guidance from your parents. You can't be her guide; it's not your job as a friend. It's your job to let her know you care about her.
2007-08-26 02:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Niko- 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is a hard decision. She should talk to her parents about what she wants to do. She could keep the baby, pit it up for adoption, or get an abortion. She should do whatever feels right to her.
2007-08-26 02:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has to talk to her parents, I see no other choice.
it might look very difficult but they are the only ones who can really help her in a situation like this.
2007-08-26 02:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she needs to find an ob/gyn doctor to go to for prenatal care, they will give her prenatal vitamins and such. if she hasn't already she should talk to her parents, she will need as much support as she can get. if she is afraid to tell her parents the doctor will not be able to tell them either so she shouldn't be afraid to go to the doctors.
2007-08-26 02:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by g g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she really should tell her parents......she is a minor, and in most states her parents will have to be in charge of her care or notified no matter where you go or who else you tell.
14 is way too young to be a mother.........believe me, i've been there!!
2007-08-26 02:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by WHOISTHEPUPPETMASTER? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far along is she? Tell her to go get a test,if she already has make sure she gets another one.And then if she is pregnate then she has to tell her parents.And tell her that she shouldn't have had any bussiness having sex that young anyway.
2007-08-26 02:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by mallory_morgan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, she has to tell her parents about it sooner or later before she starts to show.
If she wants to have a child, well, so be it. But, there are other options.
2007-08-26 02:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by - Andrew - 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋