okay well,
theres is girl at school named Stefanie Dale,
shes liked me for quite awhile now.
people say shes the best etc,
she makes me smile and laugh,
but i still cnt ask her out.
and im not sure how i feel about her!
do you think im gay?
and have a problem?
should i go out with this girl?
i cant make my mind up and need help?
please.
heres a picture of stef.
2007-08-26 02:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Small Business
For starters, only you know if you're gay. Because you are attracted, but reluctant does not mean that you aren't of the Normal. You simply have to look into a mirror and ask yourself, what is my attraction to this person? what do we have in common? and just start by being her friend....maybe she really would appreciate that. Besides, depending on your age, you probably still have a lot of time to determine your sexual preferences, and to distinguish between lust and love.
2007-08-26 02:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by teressa j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not "gay" but I suspect that you are a "teenager" . Welcome to the life of an emerging man. We all get nervous when dealing with a cute girl. The odds are that she is wondering why you don't ask her if she wants to do something - "hang out"? - go the the movies? Ask her.
You should never put her name or picture up on the Internet and now would be a good time for you to explain to her what you did and why. Be really open and tell her that you where acting out of sincere interest but you just didn't think about what the possible effects could be. Make sure that she knows that this has taken place so she can be prepared.
It is not an "end of the world" mistake but discretion is the main element on the road to being a full fledged gentleman. Never expose a woman to inappropriate or undeserved publicity. There are lots of people on the Internet who are not as earnest as you are and could constitute a threat.
Impress her with your maturity and let her know what has happened.
2007-08-26 03:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mordecai Jones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wise to give the girl's full name and then post a picture of her on the Internet without her permission? I don't plan on going to look at it. It seems she'd be better off without you.
2007-08-26 02:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Niko- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most likely just shy. Ask her out. Give it a shot. If she doesn't go out with you, at least you tried. If you find you don't like her, you still won't be gay. That is something you would know whether you took her out or not.
2007-08-26 02:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your position, but in order for anyone to give you a concrete answer or advise to your question, you need to post the question in the correct area and this is not the correct area for this type of question.
Thank you,
2007-08-26 02:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by liquidfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a small business and finance question?????
2007-08-26 02:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S ME AGAIN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋