It's 2 months I've married.Last night my spouse was talking to his brother on phone, he picked the phone, went to a room,closed the door n continued talking! It was the first time I saw it,he was hiding sth from me in this visible way! I got so angry n after call finished we made a bad argument! He said" I won't tell you what was it cuz it's better for you!" n finally he didn tell me. Does every men have sth like this?Is that usual?Or I was right?! Men please tell me.I think he doesn' accept me as his wife to tell her everything and to trust her.....
2007-08-26 01:33:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In a calm moment, explain your feelings to your husband.
You felt left out of his life.
You felt that he did not trust you.
Let him know what you need to feel included, trusted and loved.
He could well have been sharing a dirty joke session with his brother and did not want you to hear them. As another poster said, he may have wanted advice and did not want to appear weak in your eyes. If you broach the subject with hubby again, do so in a non-argumentative, non-judgemental way. If he is hiding nothing from you he will be willing to listen and work through the bad feelings generated by the incident
2007-08-26 01:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by fretochose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that what he had to say was none of your business. Just because he is your husband doesn't mean that you need to be a part of every conversation that he takes part in. Besides, the phone call was to his brother. Do you think he is cheating on you with his brother? If not then what makes you think you have a right to be included in their conversation?
2007-08-29 06:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by David C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get hurt.
Will you talk with your sister in presence of him?
We, the girls' talk too much and hearing us will make any man mad.
men and women need some personal space.
And if you ask me why do men marry, the answer is simple. To have unpaid great f****s.
2007-08-26 09:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, here is an article that is called "Accepting your wife's influence. It's important! " If it was so important for you to know and you feel unhappy know, try to find out what went wrong and know that sometimes it is better to leave some privacy for your man ;) They also have a right to have some secrets :) http://www.2-brides.com/article/accepting-your-wife-s-influence-it-s-important/31
2007-08-29 11:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by raganiuxe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married...but I think I would give my husband a reasonable personal space...He was talking to his brother, not to a strange woman...So I wouldn't worry much about what they had to say behind closed doors...
2007-08-26 08:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he doesn't trust you? He married you.
Why do you think that he must tell you everything?
Grow up, I'm sure there are things you talk about that you wouldn't want your husband to hear.
2007-08-26 08:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by timmn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was ordering a gift for you, perhaps a party to suprise you ..... do you talk "girl talk" infront of him of thephone or in person ?
Even married folks need personal time & space.
Let him wipe his butt in peace in the bath room.
2007-08-26 08:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys talk trash with each other (especially brothers) saying raunchy things they wouldn't want their wives to hear. I wouldn't worry about it as it's probably harmless.
2007-08-26 08:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be asking for advise on a subject you wouldnt approve of..for instance. he might be wanting to know a viewpoint on a subject that he might be handling wrong and is asking for a bit of advise from an older brother ..
2007-08-26 08:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he's planning a surprise for you...
2007-08-26 09:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋