does the sex stay the same after marriage?

Question

meaning like if u had great sex before u were married to ur bf/gf, does it stay great after uve tied the knot :]

Answer 1

Reality is, Jeannette, when you get married the relationship evolves.

Your partner needs to be competent in his Activities of Daily Living. He should be able to maintain his hygiene, his laundry, his housekeeping, his car, and his finances. He should be compatible with his employment, get along well there, and have opportunities for promotion.

You, too.

This alleviates a lot of the stressors young married couples encounter when they are shocked to find that husband has a thing where wife does all the housework while he watches TV.

Actually, if toghether you review a budget, and you review a list of the activites of daily living, then you become more effective with financial and time management. This should alleviate the money/time arguements.

Then kids come and you're up all night and up all day and he's wondering why you're ignoring him while he watches you change the umpteenth diaper.

He's tired from work and stressed from being replaced as No. 1 in your world. You're just exhausted.

This affects the sex life.

So, if you have the capablility to have great sex now, I'd have to say that capability remains.

Then you just have to find the right time and place to indulge it.

If you're still awake.

Oh, PS, not to worry, the kids move out in 20 years.....

Answer 2

No. But, that doesn't mean it gets better, or worse. It does, however, mean that either or both could happen. There are so many things that play into a good sex life. Some people just expect it to happen because they are married. And, often, the disappointment causes schisms in the relationship. As well, though, the enjoyment can bring a lifetime of unlimited joy. It depends on the people, the terms of endearment, and so many other things that are important to a person. Some different than in others depending on the experience of each individual.

Answer 3

I think it depends on if your talking about quality or quantity. Life is all about change, some good/some bad. I have never been married, but my married friends tell me that their sex life did change after marriage. Some say it gets better, some way it gets worse. Its like anything else...if you value a good sex life and work at it, it will get better, if not, it will slowly fade away. Like all other aspects of a relationship it has to do with good communication skills. Make a habit of making your feelings known from the beginning so that when the sex starts to change, you can influence it to become better, not worse.

Answer 4

After a while, sex kind of dies out. With all the pressures from work and family and school, there's not a lot of time for it and even if there is it's usually rushed. However, there are the rare couples out there where sex is better after marriage, like my best friend. You'll never know until you're there!

Answer 5

Great No! When you have your first sex with your partner/husband or wife for the first time, it was great and fun and enjoyable. As years goes on your relationship the lust will fade away. It will never been the same as hot as you were before were you are not married or early married.

When your relationship passed many years on, sex is seldom that needs something enhancing to regain back the lost desires or lust. Couples who did not experiments sex activity many of them cheats.

Answer 6

Nope lol my thinking on this is that 3-5 years of a marrage is having sex like crazy to make babies 5-15 or so this is when it dies down cause this is the time you spend raising the kids. Then it jumps back up once the kids are gone just for a while before menopous....Just my thoughts

Answer 7

That really up to the individuals, if they want to spice up there sex life. Sex becomes the least important thing once you tie the knot. Sex gets worse after you married.

Answer 8

for some people stay the same, for others "the honey moon" it over after 6 month, it depends how you two handle the marriage, you can have an eternal honey moon if you continue looking at each other with desires and true love never loose that first kiss when the two of you did when you met the first time, good luck!!

Answer 9

I've been married for over 17 years and contrary to popular belief it only gets better. As you and your spouse grow together you learn what really works for each other, in addition you become more comfortable with each other and your able to communicate. This is true with any relationship that endures time, married or not!

Answer 10

Depends