Can astrology explain why my life SUCKS?!?!?

Question

I was born Friday Feb the 13th...I am an Aquarius.

Anyway through my life I have often set aside instead of trying to join a click, or if I got turned down I wouldnt keep trying and trying to be their friends. I automatically switched to enemies...I act nice and everything to their face, but I plot and just wait for something to happen to where I can make a move.

I was ontop of the world when i dropped out of highschool, and I partied, had alot of friends, had a girl I was having sex with, I had everything I wanted. Then it all stopped after a DUI. I literally stopped hanging out with all these random people, and I just smoked alot of weed. All these people looked up to me and I know they wanted to be me. But then after that I guess I lost confidence and kind of let people walk over me because I felt alone, and I feel like I dont have any back up.

How can I make my life good again?!?! I havent dated in 3 years and im 20....this really sucks. I am joining the Marines soon too.

Answer 1

Try to be more confident and find YOU ARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF! Loving and accepting ourselves is THE MOST CRITICAL FACTOR in experiencing joy,happiness, and success in life. When you really love yourself and you really love other people, you find that life is really an incredible journey where things flow, and no matter what happens you always find a way to enjoy yourself and you feel fulfilled. You MUST love yourself completely.
This determines your STANDARDS for what you are willing to accept or settle for. It determines how well you treat your body and your health, how much money you feel you deserve to earn or feel you can make, your belief in whether you can achieve your goals, how much others RESPECT you and how they treat you, and even whether people like you and want to be around you. People love being around confident people. You see, confident people do not feel the need to judge you or tear you down in order to elevate their own self-worth. They radiate a positive energy. You feel safe around them. You need to consistently and confidently take action to move towards your goals, and towards your ultimate destiny. People who lack in confidence often get ‘stuck’. So you see, your entire DESTINY is shaped by your degree of confidence. True self-confidence comes from an absolute sense of certainty deep within, that you are able to handle anything life throws your way. Truly confident people exude calm, control, power, certainty. They care about people, and they make people feel good when they are around them.They never brag – after all, actions speak louder than words. People who brag are just masking their insecurities. People have varying degrees of confidence depending on what activity they are performing. For example, someone might be totally confident in performing a piano concert, or driving a car, but feel totally inadequate at a new job they’ve started, or at flirting with members of the opposite sex. People with Total Self-Confidence, though, have complete belief in themselves. They never ask themselves “Can I really do this? What if this doesn’t work out? Am I good enough to pull it off?” They know that if they really want something, and they are committed to getting it, it will happen. They know that it’s just a question of time until they’ve mastered the skills and knowledge to make whatever they want a reality

Answer 2

Well, for one, I don't think that you should look to astrology as an absolution on life answers, but I will say this: this world is extremely chaotic, no matter what "lawful" society tries to impose on us, and sometimes it feels as if we sit exactly on the tears that are forming in the fabrics of the universe. Something that my Dad told me is this, something that intrigued me and something that I will never forget: "God doesn't care about your personal comfort, nor does he care if you have everything that is going on around you figured out at this exact moment...all he cares about is whether or not you are willing to play your part in his giant plan that ultimately, only he will completely understand."

I myself actually believe in astrology a lot, and it is actually one of my greatest areas of knowledge (although I have few such areas and even those I do have aren't all that amazing lol), but what I'm trying to say is that its not the answer, merely a guide. I am 19, I've gotten laid with two girls in my whole life, and they were both over a year ago. I feel lost alot, especially since I couldn't just be a kid that blindly accepts things anymore, even my choice to join the Army seems to be something that randomly transpired, perhaps by destiny?

I do know that life is much better since I joined the service, and even though it sucks sometimes because I'm away from my family and the schedule is tough, I'm doing so much better for myself now! I don't work at mcdonalds, I don't smoke pot, I don't hang out with a bunch of people I hardly know, and although I still don't have a girlfriend, that's all in due time. I decided to throw myself into something bigger than just me, and I've learned SO MUCH in the last year that I have been out "on my own." It's ridiculous.

I'm DEFINITELY not saying that the military is the answer to life either though, in fact I have been feeling rather down lately myself, but what I am trying to do, and what i HAD to do was share with you that one simple thought that whatever craziness is going on in your life right now isn't because life sucks, cause I think that in all sense of the word life is cool and death sucks, although it doesn't seem that way all the time. Lol, ok I'm going to quit rambling now, I don't know if what I've said helped, but just remember that SOME divine force is out there, whatever you want to call him, and the best we can do is our best. That's it. Just hold your head high and cut through the crap, and remember that God's already on making the world cool again, he just wants you to jump on the boat.

Good luck man, I think that joining the Marines was a good decision, I hope that my minor role in the plan to tell you this helps you to fulfill your minor role in God's master plan.

Godspeed, and I'm not Christian so please don't take this as a Jesus note on your windshield,
Naoys

ADD: Lol everyone else is doing it so I'll add my main chart points just to prove I'm not a stinky evangelist:

Sun: Pisces
Moon: Libra
Rising: Capricorn

and I kinda forgot my other ones but I know that mars is Aries...its my only fire sign...lol have a good night!

Answer 3

Maybe "Murphy's Law" just lives at your house. I'm a Scorpio on the cusp of Sagittarius. I have a rotten disposition and don't really care. Honey, the Marines is a good place to find your confidence, just don't get mad & go AWOL. If you do, you be doing time in Levenworth Prison and thats no bull.
I'm not a big believer in the Christian Fairy Tale, but if you believe in all that, have you tried to find your self a religion or a Church. sometimes this helps people get where they need to be.
By the way Friday the 13th is only unlucky to persons who believe that Jesus was crucified on that day I believe that its a lucky day and I'm sure your Mom does, too.
"Do what you want, but harm no one."

Answer 4

Aquarians often feel like they are looking at the world through glass.

You seem like a typical aquarius to me.

Your only 20 though. Your probably just going through a lot of change and confusion right now.

Good luck in the marines.

Answer 5

well you are not alone, if you can't make it in civilian life then the military isn't a bad choice, but know you will most likely be stationed in iraq or iran, that you could lose everything

I would join for duty and honor

but seeing as how the commander in chief is a coward I consider it a disgrace to die in service to george bush

Answer 6

Astrology is superstitious nonsense that can't really explain anything. If your life sucks, it is because the circumstances of your life make it suck.

Answer 7

No.