Being shy isn't a bad thing exactly, but it limits you from so much.
There are always loud, outgoing people, the neutral people who talk but don't talk too much, and then the shy ,quiet people who seem to be scared of everything.
I was a bit shy in my younger years, but then I came out of my shell and loved it. There are so many oppurtunities for everyone, and it's almost always the outgoing people who get them.
Sitting back and being shy won't get you what you want, so unless you can be shy AND be assertive, then I would say that being shy is not the best idea.
2007-09-02 11:12:44
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answered by Anonymous
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I am a shy person but i have gotten out of it but not all the way. I am still shy at times but they shouldn't be bad. the only bad thing is that you may not be so open to meeting new people. but you may be the person to meet new people. the good thing is that you may get to know people before you decided to date them. you may also find out what you really like to do and what you hate. there are many things that people may see as bad when it comes to shy people. or they may find very good things with shy people.
but the bottom line is that being shy isn't bad at all. sooner or later you will be not so shy but have some in you. shyness helpes you in your life whether or not you see it. it shows different sides of people and i makes you believe in yourself in a whole different way. so don't go thinking that being shy is all bad. but see it that it is good and it will help you in life.
2007-08-31 15:08:06
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answered by micki122m 1
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My grandma used to say a shy person was a nuisance to themselves. Think about it they want not to be shy and at the same time can not seem to get passed it. They are always in conflict in social situations wishing they could interact and then feeling miserable because they don't.
2007-09-01 11:04:14
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answered by Wilma S 4
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I'm a shy person.
I don't think it's good or bad - it's just who I am and I have to learn to accept and love myself.
Although shyness can stop me from doing things - such as going to parties and other social functions. But, we can't all be the same, can we? Variety is the spice of life - so I am the shy spice.
2007-08-26 03:18:53
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answered by happy inside 6
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Too shy is not good But to loud is just plain annoying. If you never say anyhitng people consider you weird. I think you should be in the middle. Speak your opinion but for only what matters.
2007-09-02 13:49:13
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answered by peaches 3
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when i was little i was really shy. as i got older, i was more open and stuff. little people that are shy don't make as many friends, i think. but shy type persons are neither good nor bad.
2007-08-31 18:42:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Shy is fine but not those extremely shy. It is not bad...but it doesn't do one any good either. Loud people are annoying. Many times they tend to speak only of rubbish too.
2007-08-25 18:40:42
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answered by Willy 3
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im a quiet person. I wouldnt say its good or bad. Its possible to be too shy tho. then its bad :) like if you get nervous when sombody says hi to you. thats kinda bad lol
2007-08-25 18:36:13
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answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7
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It really depends on your personality !!?!! I'm fairly shy myself !! But is a friendly person !! & I guess since I do'nt mind showing ALL people kindness & respect !! I guess that lets me open up just a smidgen !?! to show the best I can or know how of how hip I can be ?!/!?.,. "R"r.r`r,r'.-
2007-09-01 22:02:30
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answered by ? 5
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I have often mistaken a shy person to be a snob.
2007-09-02 15:24:43
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answered by saloon girl 4
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