i need advise.a right decission..who is im gonna choose to marry?a guy who can gave me evrything nd can help to my family?or a guy that i love but hes not nothing i mean hes job is not enough for mo to support..1st guy is very good to me he gave what i want but my heart belongs to 2nd guy i dont understand my feelings..pls help me.tnx and godblees..
2007-08-25 17:37:32 · 15 answers · asked by mariecris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not chose either. Go to school, get a degree and do something on your own for yourself. You will find true happiness and the right man when you find yourself!!! You sound like you are not ready for a serious relationship.
Sorry, I hope I do not sound mean. I just believe women should be strong and independent. It helps the man and if it doesn't work out, you still have yourself.
2007-08-25 17:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by LuvinLos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart is a very deceitful tool be careful. Sometimes when you choose with your heart the other person takes advantage of you. The fact that the second guy doesn't make enough shouldn't stop you from choosing him. The question for you is "Which of the two guys, do you feel that your relationship is stronger? There has one that makes you feel all funny inside, you heart skips a beat. I would go with that one.
2007-08-26 01:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money will not bring you happiness. Although guy # 1 may have money and can support you better, your heart belongs to guy # 2 and you will always be unhappy and wondering what it would have been like to be with the love of your life (guy # 2). There are plenty of people out there who have tons of money, but are miserable. I would go for the guy who makes me feel the best.
2007-08-26 01:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by DK Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the guy that has a great job and can help your family,if both of you love each other he would be the one.The other guy yall would strugle alot,but you never know he could get a better job offer and have something one day.Give it some time,but if you had to choose now it would be the first guy.
2007-08-26 13:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa (butterfly) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pray about it, God knows what is best for us (even when we don't). True love isn't about material things(been there, done that) and it definitely doesn't make you happy, in fact it can actually make you miserable! If you truly love guy #2, I'd say to follow your heart! You both may have to work harder to make it financially, but it could be worth it to be with the one who has your heart! Good luck and God Bless!!
2007-08-26 00:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by everybody's mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are meant to marry for love. Marrying for other reasons, such as for comfort and riches, becomes empty emotionally and eventually unsatisfying. If the second guy works a solid, honest day each day, lives with integrity and loves you, those are excellent qualities.
2007-08-26 00:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need a man who will work and take care of your family, very important. Dump both of them and find a guy you like who has a good career going.
2007-08-26 00:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would choose #1. Because there is no real way of knowing which one will work out. You really dont know until you marry them. So at least pick the one you know you will benefit from.
2007-08-26 00:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
neither ...Go for the guy who trys to give you everything and makes life better but loves you will all his heart ... Thats why he tries. if you feel the same desire....your love will be shared equally and the stars will not ever be too high to reach....
2007-08-26 00:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy. Life is not based on money you earn and the success you have achieved. It’s all about being happy with who you are, who you are with, who you’ve got, who you love and who makes your life worth living.
2007-08-26 04:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by RevLonxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋