2007-08-25 14:17:11 · 24 answers · asked by mnunez1709 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it depends on his wife...mine did...he only agreed to let me keep my best friend and we can only talk on the phone...
2007-08-25 14:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by panini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. If a couple is totally honest with each other and know that they would never cheat on another, having friends of the opposite sex should not be a problem. I trust my wife and I have no problems with her having male friends.
2007-08-25 14:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by zdude_4u 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
in case you "sense like (you're) betraying him by some skill", then I quite suspect there may be something you're hiding from your self, quite than something your husband is hiding from you (i.e. hidden jealousy). what's it which you're feeling is betraying him? Are you interested in this co-worker? You intently notice that he's single and strong looking. Do you sense flattered by using his interest? Is he an elementary restore for something you felt replaced into lacking? have you ever long gone off with him on my own (no longer suggesting something crossing the line... yet even only out to talk or for a drink, etc)... and why no longer with your husband too? It looks such as you're reacting to him on some point different than only straight forward friendship, or you does no longer sense this sense of pending betrayal. Be very, very careful. This looks like probability waiting to ensue, truthfully. it incredibly is incredibly elementary to slip into crossing the line in a dating like this; elementary to sense flattered by using interest, intrigued by using the newness of somebody new. The grass is often greener on the different element! in case you somewhat do want him as basically a chum, how approximately doing something in a team with him and your husband? If it makes you uncomfortable to think of of them assembly, then this is a significant warning sign for you top there. Why might you ought to conceal him? i understand you have suggested you have instructed your husband each little thing, yet, it is not an analogous situation as showing... your new buddy which you're fortuitously taken, and showing your husband an analogous situation, and which you're sharing your existence (and pals) with him.
2016-10-17 00:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I work in an environment where both men and women do equal work. Should I refrain from talking to my male co-works because I'm married? I think not.
If a husband tries to restrict who his wife is friends with then there are deeper troubles in the marriage, such as trust issues.
2007-08-25 14:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes. But more than that..such a wife should ask herself why it is that she seems to require so much male attention and then she should stop having men friends.
2007-08-25 17:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by jokerthefreak1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the type of relationship she has with these male friends. Some friends are "friendlier" than others and these gestures can be taken the wrong way by husbands/boyfriends.
2007-08-25 15:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A few of my old buddies used to love married woman. The ones that think they can handle the advances of any man. Turns out, my buddies used to score countless times. In a weak moment, anything can happen.
2007-08-25 15:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if the wife has a problem with her husband having female friends.
Its a 2 way street if you wouldnt like your man going out to work bashes (parties) and mingling with the female co-workers or going out to clubs with his female friends he had before you came along , or you wouldnt like him talking on line or on the phone to them when he could be spending that time with "YOU".Then you already know the answer.
2007-08-25 14:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is just not a smart idea after you are married. If you want to be friends with the opposite sex then you should only get together when your spouse is there or a group of people. It is just the right thing to do.
2007-08-25 14:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I do. The only male friend she needs is her husband.
2007-08-25 14:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course!
When I get married, I am going to forbid my wife from having male friends. I don't want her thinking about them, or - even worse - I don't want any of those nasty men to touch my wife!
Hey, I' m a jealous man. I'm protective of my women.
2007-08-25 14:49:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋