If you have banished a friend, was the reason worth it now? What was the reason?

Answer 1

i banished her allright,i caught her mouth between my hubbies legs,licking on his tootsie roll.my week end in jail and 500 dollar fine was well worth it.

Answer 2

Well, this didn't happen to me, but it did happen to two of my friends. There is a law that says no one under 17 may be out on the streets later than 12:30 AM. They were out at 4 AM making mischief, and 4 cop cars pulled up. They were in an alley and obviously caught. One of my dumbass friends makes a run for it and gets caught. That little stunt got them BOTH in even more trouble. The one that didn't run "banished" the other one. That happened about a month ago and their court hearing is in a week or so. They stopped hanging out completely ans I'm caught in the middle of it. Also, the one that ran was also being a douche.

Answer 3

I dont know if banished is the right word, but I've stopped communicating with one friend who I was very faithful to for many years. It occurred to me that she only called or wrote when she wanted me to vouch for her in a job interview. I'm glad I never moved into her house because that turned out to be a nursemaid's job with her 92 yo grandmother. When I became handicapped, her calls became few and far between. I guess we really dont need friends like that.

Answer 4

Honestly, it felt right at the time, as she never sticks up for me when stuff goes down, regardless of how many times I've protected her. Now I miss her,(I'm a loner, so I don't have many friends) but I still feel it was worth it. I also notice a bunch of other bad habits and things I hate about her, so I guess it makes it easier not having her around.

Answer 5

yes it was worth it and it always will be.

looong drawn out and complicated reason, but basically she was an odd person who expected strange things from us. Like, if we sat on a couch, and we didn't invite her to sit with us, she'd sulk and go somewhere else. If we asked her what was wrong, she'd say 'nothing", and smile and laugh.

well one day we had the first of a few confrontations and she said "you're supposed to know that I don't mean what I say! you guys aren't being good friends!" and just odd things like that. She also told her mother lies about us and her mom made our lives miserable. this friend was always getting secretly mad about stupid little things that we would never know until we confronted her. and by the time we did, she would be so upset that our friendship was hardly a friendship any more.

so one day we had a tearful confrontation with her and told her all the things we have noticed over the years, all her strange behaviors and strange expectations of us, and her constant bitterness towards us. Then we told her we couldn't be fake with her any more and it was best to face the truth; we weren't friends any more. So let's stop pretending to be and move on with our lives.

after that, she switched high schools and I rarely hear from her any more. her name was maggie.

Answer 6

I wouldn't say banished...more like we severely drifted and went our separate ways. The reason was our deeply opposing views of the war in Iraq and the U.S. government.
And yes, there was no way we could remain friends as the depth of values, etc. were too disparagingly agonizing and things like that spill into other areas as well.

Answer 7

Yes it was worth it. Not all friends sleep with your husband. I banished him for a year too.

Answer 8

I had this friend a long time ago in high school, one day I noticed she had lice and I tried to talk to her about it in a letter nicely. The next day I noticed she still had it, and so I reported her to the nurses office and the nurse checked her head out. She never would have anything to do with me and I tended to stay away from her because the nurse said she didn't find anything but i knew what I saw.

Answer 9

HELL YEAH IT WAS WORTH IT! I lived with this girl who needed my help...I moved out and went back for my things and she was gone...ALL of my sons first things GONE! all of my clothes, jewlery, keep sakes from my father...This was a u-haul size of stuff...It was everything I had! That female dog deserves exactly what she gets in life...good people get good karma..and from what I understand, she has had very bad luck since the incident...I did file a police report, and they have been looking for her for other reasons...time will catch up to her and I will not blink an eye her way....

Answer 10

Yes. She wanted to own me and take me prisoner. The longer we knew each other the more she wanted from me....my time, my attention, take her to the doctors because whe was afraid, spend every weekend together, plan excursions for adults. It was like she wanted an intimate relationship but without s*x. (I am straight)
I am single mom of 4 kids that live with me and she had 2 sons that lived with their dad. I just didn't have the kind of time or extra attention to give that she required and she would get very angry when I would break a date because my kids were sick or needed something last minute. Or if I refused to make plans that spanned and entire weekend. I simply ran out of room for her and her demands in my life. I tried to explain and to talk to her about her attitude and tried to find a compromise that we could both work with- she was intelligent and fun to be with when we could get together- but it was all or nothing. It was actually her choice to shut me out but it was due to my limiting our contact to what I could manage.