After all he did, he doesnt deserve to be happy.
2007-08-25 12:38:13 · 16 answers · asked by kristy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on with your life, quit worring about his...you still allowing him to control your emotions which means he is still winning!
2007-08-25 12:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by cs 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You need to move on, living in the past will do you no good.
However, since you asked, I'm here to help. Are you ready?
1. Buy his wife roses with a card that states another man's name.
2. Register at an online dating service in his name and/or hers and make sure that you include a photo and a phone number. Remember, you need to know everything about his wife or know everything about your ex which I am assuming you do. Then whoever you get, share their phone number. And don't stop there, be diverse, even same sex dating service will work.
3. Get change of address cards and forward the mail to a po box. Once the bills are late, there will be a problem with finances.
4. Arrange an appointment with a realator to come and see the house (theirs). You're in luck if one of them is home then the other one will half to wonder why the realator is there.
5. If they have trees, hire somebody to cut them down. Make sure they are not there.
6. If they have a nice lawn, you may want to hire a neighborhood boy to cut their grass. Make sure they are not home.
7. Go to a bar and get a date then give that potential date her address.
8. Put an ad in the local paper "Room For Rent".
9. Call a divorce lawyer but give them the name and number of the other spouse. When he calls, he will be calling her instead or him asking to speak with her.
2007-08-25 21:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by zdude_4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy and make friends. Let him go, remember what goes around comes around. Please do not take me wrong, I can imagine what you feel like. You think that breaking someone's marriage will make you happy, well, it might but then it might not. He is your ex, and let it be. You must be a cool person, you need to relax and just move on. You and I do not know the future, he may get a divorce in time to come and then may be not. If you need to cry, do so. Cry and then listen to music and dance and then think about your life. Your future, your goals. And if nothing helps, this is what will surely help, go and do some charity work, help people with cancer, help homeless people, keep your mind busy, just stay focused. Every time you think of negative stuffs, stop yourself. Start doing something else. Give to others and justice will prevail. He is the loser if he lost you. But you must forgive him and yourself. Life is too short to be unhappy. If his happiness make you unhappy, stop the contact. Read some nice books or watch some movies or cook something sepical for yourself. He has someone there for him, who do you have? Bitterness, anger, jealous... all die with time but they leave a very nasty memory. Who cares about him and his happiness. Care about yourself and love yourself. We all deserve to be happy, even him. This must make you mad, but dont you think you deserve more happiness than him, if so then move on. Dont let him get to you. You are special. Trust in god, and move on. It will be hard but you will come a winner. There can be 1 million of him but there is only 1 you. Just be happy, you deserve it!
2007-08-25 20:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Zakia S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very childish. The thing is, there is a reason he is your ex....he doesn't deserve to be in your future. You need to turn the page and move on!!
You deserve to be with someone who will make YOU happy. Let your ex live his life and I assure you that it will not always be filled with happiness!
2007-08-25 19:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With an attitude like that, it doesn't surprise me that you're his ex. Are you sure it was something that HE did?
Don't waste your time on such a negative endeavour. It will never bring you satisfaction (hurting people never does), and if it does bring you satisfaction to do so, it means that you probably should seek the help of a professional counsellor or therapist. It isn't healthy to want to harm other people.
2007-08-25 23:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, and move on. Although you feel he doesn't deserve to be happy, he won't be the only one affected. Get your own life, and stop trying to do something to your ex that you wouldn't want done to you.
2007-08-25 20:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
everybody deserves the right to "the pursuit of happiness"
thats the law they wrote for us, sometimes its all we get
like gerbols on that wheel thing, running and running
trying to get somewhere, all we get is alittle exercise usually and maybe some frustration
often the "way is in the pursuit" of anything
and "travelling hopefully is better than arriving" mostly
2007-08-25 19:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He deserves to be as happy as the next person but you are being selfish and juvenile in this approach. You need to move on and forget about him. Maybe your approach to things like this is the reason why you and he aren't married.
2007-08-25 19:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best thing for you to do is simply move on, let it go and focus all your attention on making yourself happy.
2007-08-25 20:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU deserve to be happy. let go and move on.
2007-08-25 22:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋