I get really jealous of my boyfriend..so much to the point that last night when I was out with him I thought he was staring at another girl and started a big fight and scene where we were and just ruined the night. I hate this about myself but my last boyfriend cheated on me soo much that I guess it's left a deep scar in my heart and I can't get over it. It's gotten to the point where my present boyfriend hardly sees his friends or goes out for me because I can't stand the thought that he might go out there and talk to a girl or meet a girl. And when I'm not with him, it's all I can think about. It's very frustrating for me and I can only imagin how frustrating it is ifor him. He does'nt even talk to other girls and I get so jealous when ever the girl that works at the corner store says hi to him. HOW CAN I FIX THIS ABOUT MYSELF?
2007-08-25 10:49:48 · 6 answers · asked by dreamangel_141414 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you just have to learn to have trust. talk to him about this, and let him know that you want to have a good relationship. let him know that it helps you cope when he reminds you that you are the only one for him. it will be ok!
2007-08-25 10:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it sounds like u might have insecurity issues b/c of this last boyfriend.......i know how u feel, i went through the same thing and my boyfriend has been through this with me. the only thing u can do is trust him.....if he hasn't given u a reason to distrust him then dont. i can understand how u feel but remember....he's not your ex....give him a chance and if you're worried dont let your guard down for a while....discuss your issues with him also......you're gonna lose him if u dont quit....i lost my man many times over that....but they dont always come back either
2007-08-25 11:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go & give him his freedom. Nothing turns a guy off more than a jealous and/or over jealous girl.
I'm not trying to be mean but I would have left you already.
2007-08-25 12:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need to seek some help on this matter or you are going to lose your boyfriend.
2007-08-25 10:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Merecwen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup learn to trust girl..all guys arent the same:)..
2007-08-25 11:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by ConfidentSmartass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to him if he was angry and ask him if he likes her and if he does dump him and say i can go out with u im sorry!
2007-08-25 10:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by My name=patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋