Don't have any friends and never had a girlfriend. Even when I meet people, all I can ever make of them is an acquaintence. No one invites me out.
Am a short guy 5'4 in my late twenties. Girls have liked me, but haven't gone out with me since I'm too short and skinny.
My life is pretty pointless. I have lost all motivation.
If I being punished for something I can't help, what's the point of this life?
2007-08-25 09:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by florida 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You might become something important in life.Like be a profesional. You might discover some new things.Trust me everything has its time and when the time is right it WILL come. Hope this helps.
~Evy
2007-08-25 09:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really down. Let me see if I can understand this. You are short and skinny and cannot attract girls and, therefore, your life is meaningless and not worth anything, because a life without a girl on your arm (a trophy, so to speak) makes life worthless. Have I got that right?
Well, something tells me there is more to life than that. You only get out of life what you put into it. I think you should start trying to put something into life and that will make your life meaningful, and when you put some meaning into it, then you will become attractive to other women. Women are not attracted to looks. Women are attracted to a story in their head, the story they create about being with a man who makes them feel special and who they can look up to. You have to accomplish something, and it can be anything, because everyone has a special interest, before you attract women. Live a life that a story can be created from. That makes a man bigger than real life to a woman. Some times the story is "biker man" and sometimes the story is "college professor during the day". Believe me, in your twenties your life is just getting started. I didn't attract women until my 30s and I didn't get married until 39. Everything is preparation for then rest of your life. Oh, and I am 5'4", too.
2007-08-25 16:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you start out when you meet people with a negative vibe? Try to open up and talk to people, find someone that has the same things in common. I dated a man your size before and we had the best time, he was one of the nicest, funniest people I knew. He left me for someone taller (I am 5'1) and more popular so your size is not the issue as much as the vibe you are putting out there. Everyone has bad times and feels alone, trust me it will come around. Find what you need to make you happy and your happiness rubs off on others and see how many freinds you make then. Good Luck
2007-08-25 16:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by stormy m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of this life??
Good question.
But not so much impossible to cope with.
You will have to make the effort and put yourself out there more. Join a group with your kind of interests. Take a class. Whatever gets you around groups of people, and commonalities.
It is no fun being the last one picked for the team, but it happens and you are not alone in this.
Life isn't just going to happen. You have to do it, and therefore you have the control. Believe me.
2007-08-25 16:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out there, now.
Set yourself a target to join a club or something within the next week. Don't care for your lack of confidence or whether people will like you- just find a something you like and do it. It doesn't matter if you don't think you'll like it too much- the matter is too important.
Just do that, trust me. Don't hesitate!
2007-08-25 16:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by John T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad to say alot of ppl have gone superfical which i think is stupid all i can say is live life to the fullest as you can i have been there i gained lots of weight my doctor even put me on prozac tring to help me cope i stopped looking for a relationship and it seems like love finds me when its time to happen
2007-08-25 16:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by hypnotickewlbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋