... should I sell all his clothes while he is away?
what about his computer? and his books?
2007-08-25 08:25:02 · 19 answers · asked by Jesus is my Savior 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Pat: having ANY sort of reaction from him would be a bonus, believe me!!!
I will move out soon, but I am not ready yet...
2007-08-25 08:36:06 · update #1
I DO need the money, because I am going to visit my sweetheart Rob in San Francisco soon... Those intercontinental flights are expensive....
2007-08-25 08:47:05 · update #2
Ok, I am sorry, it has gone too far...
it was meant to be a joke, but I see that most people took it far too seriously..
...of course I am not going to sell Jim's stuff.... I am sorry if it sounded real.
2007-08-25 23:44:13 · update #3
Jason (Ops, sorry, Rattail), if you read my comments, you'll see that the question was supposed to be a joke, and the people that went along with it, just followed that line. Noone meant it seriously.
Ah, and if you really must know I am a biochemist, as well as having a PhD in tumor biology, but how is that going to help me understanding international law??
2007-08-27 02:56:49 · update #4
If he's been a jerk It's easy to feel to want to do that, lovely. But I think it's still the best for you and him to part amicably, with no grudge at all, since I assume you both have found new love.
I'm sure no matter how expensive the trip is, it will be worth it for Rob. Good luck and God bless you and yours! :)
2007-08-25 20:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, sweetie...
Whatever the facts, stepping lower than your own standards makes you a low person... you have to stick with what is right, no matter what the other person does - and I know you can very well make the difference.
Money comes in handy - but self-respect comes in even handier in the long run. I guess you are planning to move out, and maybe he'll keep the flat? in that case, use the time to box your belonging, and prepare your move... it will happen soon enough. Save the energy for something more useful, and move out most of your stuff (maybe a friend can host your boxes...) to avoid revenge from your ex on your things while you visit your new love...
2007-08-26 05:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by OneLilithHidesAnother 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, maybe I'm missing something, but why would you do anything like that to him? Personally, I don't support vengeance, and if you're in love with another person now, it should help you radiate good energy, and spread that unique atmosphere of loving kindness. Love is supposed to make better people of us, right? You want to embrace the whole world, you simply love all the people, life as it is, everything around you...I think that includes your feelings for your ex, unless he's guilty of some irreparable sin....
I wouldn't do anything of the sort to him. I'd try to remain friends or at least non-enemies. It will make you feel better, too.
2007-08-25 16:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by ღ♥Goca♥ღ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was going to tel you that you would be sure to land in legal hot water and that you would definitely be held responsible for everything sold, but it looks like you knew that. (You are, after all, a biochemist).
What amazes me is that about 30% of your answerers are empty headed enough to egg you on or recommend that you burn or destroy property. Why do I get this feeling that these are the same people that love court and the drama assosiated yet they come out losing everytime. I understand the people believing the story and encouraging u to stop. It's the geniouses that were coaxing you along that have got me scratching my head.
2007-08-26 22:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Magic Mouse 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Unless you guys had a previous agreement that he would have everything moved out before he went on holiday. If there's no written agreement, you could find yourself in a legal mess.
2007-08-25 15:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by beckilou78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Steal a shirt spray your signature perfume on it and put in his closet. Stick a room for rent sign in the front yard and move out.
2007-08-25 15:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by rhiiiwind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's just mean. Tell him when he gets back, he has two days to get all of his stuff out, or you're selling it, and keeping the $$
2007-08-25 15:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure that is the best thing to do! If you are still sharing a flat with him and he comes back to his possessions being gone you will have to gauge his reaction!
edit....
on seconfd thought..........
2007-08-25 15:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah be nice and wash all his clothes for him.. oops how did that whole bottle of bleach end up all over his clothes??? what do you mean his computer got a virus while he was on vacation ??
2007-08-25 15:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by non_stopangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about not being vindictive and just plain moving out on your own on good terms ... and NOT victimize your ex!
2007-08-25 15:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by sglmom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋