My roommate had her exboyfriend sleepover lastnight and for some reason i find it very disrespectful to her current boyfriend who she claims to love very much. I just want to know what others think i know her boyfriend and he is a very nice guy and i feel like i should confront her with what she did. I just have lost all respect for her when she sits there and tells us how much she loves her boyfriend and then does this to him. what would you do?
2007-08-25 04:37:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hard to say.
Did they sleep in the same room? Same bed?
My exwife and I get along (better now than when we were married). When I travel to her town, or she travels to mine, we always at least visit with, if not stay at the others home. Our current significant others have accepted our friendship, and have no problem with it, and we all get along well in each others company.
I would truly have a problem with it, if in fact she hid it from, or lied to the current bf about it.
I would stay out of it unless she specifically asks you for your opinion. You would be inviting trouble and your rooming relationshiop would be strained at best.
2007-08-25 04:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya
i think it is wrong but maybe if you tell her, she might take it the wrong way! cause when my friend Chereece had a flatmate....this kinda happened. And her flatmate took it the wong way and thought something else! so if you do tell her say that you were only looking out for her cause you are conserned.
2007-08-29 01:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats wrong but if you talk to her about it dont come off in a wrong way cause then it wouldnt matter if you said anything you guys would just fight and may not even be friends any more!!!! So just dont act like it was something that was done to you, just talk about it and be cool about it.
2007-08-25 04:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by cheerpunk2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Don't get involved in it. It's her mistake because she's sending mixed messages. What she's doing it's right at all. I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate it if her boyfriend let his ex-girlfriend sleep over with him.
2007-08-25 04:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would steer clear of that mess.
There is a fall-out coming, and you don't want to be a part of it.
2007-08-25 04:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋