2007-08-25 03:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by CHICO07 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
E-mail me...I'll be your friend.
2007-08-25 06:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Pickles the lunch lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you have friends? Are you okay with that? or are you resigned to it? It sounds so sad. Perhaps the best thing to do is to step out of your comfort zone a bit, and join a group that has a hobby of some sort, that you would like. Keep going, or find another if you don't like that one.
Without friends you are missing out on the best experiences of you life. You need love, but more than that even, those around you need YOUR love. You are important!!!
So for your 21st birthday step out and be a friend to someone. Not all will be a friend back, but when one is you will have given yourself the best gift ever.
Happy Birthday!!
2007-08-25 10:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your 21st birthday.
I believe starting the day off at a nice restaurant and having a nice dinner with a few good friends to kick off the afternoon.
Maybe a short drive to some scenic spot you've never been before without alcohol or drugs.
Do something nice for a stranger like a child- you'll be surprise how good it'll make you feel the next day.
Lastly in the safety of your home get out the video game and with your buddies play your hearts out.
2007-08-25 10:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Owl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate with family?
Do some of your favorite things.
Treat yourself to something nice.
Shop for something special.
Go out to a movie or play(who wants some friend yappin through the whole thing anyhow).
Don't buy alcohol and get drunk. It's not worth the headache. It tends to depress people. It's bad for your health. It rarely leads to anything good.
Be sure to log on here and tell us when the day arrives so we can celebrate with you!!!
2007-08-25 10:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by dddbbb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to a bar. This seems to be what everyone does. Plan a day for yourself. Shop and buy yourself something that tickles your fancy. Eat a good lunch at a nice restaurant or favorite place. Then clean up and take in a show or movie. Enjoy yourself. Happy birthday!
2007-08-25 10:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by plyjanney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take yourself out and do something that you enjoy doing, whatever that is. Put a smile on your face, and maybe that will attract a new friend. Good luck, and Happy 21st Birthday!
2007-08-25 10:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy 21 st. having no one to share it with is very hard.
i don't know why your alone but in this day and age it is
quite common. the light of an computer hardly soothes
the human heart. Do get a small cake. Do have balloons.
Do play your favorite music. Loners in this life have a
harder time of it. but with YESHUA your never alone.
please consider getting involved with a charity or help
at a nursing home. i bless you with love, light, and good-
ness. may YESHUA shower you with love and light.
consider your self adopted by the Light. read Psalms.
2007-08-25 10:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Judy E. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have one friend.... if you can't find anyone to help you celebrate your birthday with you, how about your family? Surely you have family?
If it doesn't work out- go out on your own- to a pub and announce its your 21st birthday- people there will help you celebrate...guaranteed!
PS HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
2007-08-25 10:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Do I need a mint? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post an ad on craigslist.com for your city, in either rant/rave, casual encounters, or platonic friends. Just mention u are 21, and will be at whatever bar, stop by to wish you happy birthday. The kindness of many will follow.
2007-08-25 10:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Brian E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
VEGAS, baby!
No, seriously, go to vegas for the weekend if you want. Flights to vegas are always cheap and staying there isn't expensive if you book in advance. Always lots of fun. And you meet lots of party people!
2007-08-25 10:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tericka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, spend it with your family, and extended family. Invite your cousins and ask them to bring their friends as well. And it may be a good start for you to have friends now....
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
2007-08-25 10:35:16 · answer #11 · answered by BelindaCuty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋