Choosing labels and choosing sexual orientation are two different things, right?

Question

I think some people are confused whether or not sexual orientation is a choice because some people will end up calling themselves straight, then gay, then maybe back to straight, then maybe gay once again.

This does -not- mean their choosing their sexual orientation. It means this person is choosing a label to represent their sexual orientation, but it's obvious this type of person is bad with labels lol. More then likely, they're just bisexual with feelings coming and going.

"Converting" between sexualities and changing the label you choose to refer to yourself as are two very, very different things. More than likely, the feelings of attraction with never stop, and that is what people should be defining themselves by. Not the will of society, what their friends and family think, or what they think they should be.

So, labels and sexuality, sometimes they just get in the way? Your thoughts on the topic?

*will never stop

I think that's it for errors...

And thanks Sparkles! :D

PS: Thank you nice people lol

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Answer 1

I try to either explicitly or implicitly make this point whenever answering a question someone poses, especially if he/she's just coming out. The negativity associated with being gay often makes people feel uncomfortable with the label.

But I don't think I've ever expressed that thought as well as you just did. Congrats!

Answer 2

For me... i don't really into what labels I'm in... it's like what's the need for... it's just who i am.. why there's a need for both of them... I like what you said *Three cheers for you"

Answer 3

no thoughts you said it all. 1 star 4 u!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

excellent question u said it all

Answer 6

You got it!