My parents have already proposed a gal who is studying for 2nd year science graduation (19 years). i had seen her photo, she is okay. And her family is good enough and upto our standards. But her face is not the one which is in my dreams. I am looking for a slim faced gal with figured body like a model and all. But this gals face is bit fleshy, but still looking cute, a natural beauty and have a good figure too. This is the only problem i am facing and mine/her parents are waiting for my reply. Is it in real life that we have to marry our dream gal or a gal who is good enough as well. What shall i do friends...
Morover i am 5.9 and she is 5.4. Is that difference is needed or shall i have to proceed with a gal with more height. Is there is any scientific reasons behind this height and all. Kindly advice me guys...
2007-08-24 23:56:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Meet the girl and find out about her likes, dislikes and personality. After all, you may not be up to her standard!
2007-08-25 00:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bart S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please say NO!
I think this girl can get a better guy than u... dont get me wrong, but u r living abroad and talking about her and her family being up to ur standards. hahaha... How r u better than her or "how is ur standard better than hers" She is only 19, if u r not happy with her when u look at her the first time, dont play games of going to see her etc and making her family run around like fools to impress u.
There is nothing wrong in u wanting to marry ur dream girl, keep looking for her and say no this family.
2007-08-25 16:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetoo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u will stay happy with the one who loves u and not whom u love. suppose u find ur dream girl and then u see that u ONLY like her beauty and nothing else. then what will u do?
u should meet this girl and then decide. beauty doesnt matter that much. beauty will not remain for ever. it will ultimately go down at old age. but a real life partner will stay for ever. u meet her and then u can judge. go go go. dont waste ur time.
2007-08-25 19:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet her first. Maybe you might fall in love with her the moment you see her? The problem is yours and her parents might misunderstood that you have accepted her the first time both of you meet. Tell both parents that you just agree to meet only and any further development would only depends on both of you and not them making the decision.
2007-09-01 02:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by mako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mr make a note that marriages are fixed in heaven,if the girl will be your wife as per written in your head then how will you change it.the real beauty is not in the face it is inside ,that's in the heart .so meet him tell about you,and ask about him,then you can take a good and fresh decision.ok.
2007-09-01 09:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle when it comes to love. I assume that you have some say in this?
How about coming to the USA, find your dream girl and take her back abroad?
2007-09-01 05:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEAUTY U CANNOT QUANTIFY AND WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED, SO ITS BETTER TO LOOK FOR A PERSON WHO HAS A GOOD HEART TO SHARE LIFE LONG LIFE WITH U.
ITS NO USE IF U MARRY A VERY BEAUTIFUL GIRL WHO WILL MAKE U R LIFE HELL
2007-08-25 03:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear,
Beauty, height etc are OK but more important is her heart....
There was an actor who married a world beauty girl...now what happened?????
2007-08-25 00:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bhishmer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r such a idiotic boy...go for the character n not for the looks...u have not placed ur own pic even on yahoo....i think u must also not like urself.......u did not even talk to her n u say tha u r in the us...is that right or just fake?????
2007-09-01 05:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by miss.h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard not knowing how you are rasied to know what is like being picked to marry someone. if you dont' like this girl and if you want to wait its your chice. i am not sure what is going on with your family but tell them its not love you have for her and you will pass.
2007-08-28 15:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋