my husband and i have been married for 6 years now ,he had prostate cancer and now the doctor gave him shots,but he does not never want sex from me anymore could it be he does not want me anymore.or could he be cheating on me?
2007-08-24 23:50:58 · 14 answers · asked by lowcountry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he's feeling self conscious or just 'not in the mood'- he has been through a lot. Talk to him about this. Nobody on this site can answer this question as well as your hubby.
Good luck :)
2007-08-24 23:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by spunky_psychologist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes hes cheating... its not the prostate cancer AT ALL. Its not that the medication could be killing his sex drive, its not that he is in pain, or the whole ordeal is doing something to his ability to perform... no no. Not that he is emotionally crushed and worried that he may not LIVE after this... he's just not into you and is cheating.
How about you talk to his doctor, read up on it, and be much more supportive to HIM AND HIS NEEDS than you are right now. Honey its not about you not being attractive, this man just had a MAJOR life scare... he needs you to be understanding, and not worrying that its you. Its not you, trust me its the cancer. Talk to him and his doctor, so you both can understand.
2007-08-25 07:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a side effect of the medication. I'd ask the Dr first or read the paperwork that comes with it. If that is the case ED drugs could help. A second line of thought may be some mild depression. The male ego does not handle acute illness well at all.
2007-08-25 07:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by duanehofner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the treatments for prostate cancer is the use of estrogen. If he's getting those shots the effects can be a decrease in libido. I doubt it has anything to do with you. Talk to him and also his doctor about the issue. Best of luck with the treatments.
2007-08-25 06:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Keggler 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I doubt its the cheating but if your worried nicely and calmly sit down and ask him and share your heart. Having prostrate cancer may have scared him and maybe he now sees his penis in a different light which could be negative which could cause him to have a lesser sex drive. I think you should both find support groups that can help you.
2007-08-25 07:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has prostrate cancer!!!!! He loves you, but cannot have sex because of the cancer. He is on medication to get rid of the cancer. Sex is only one way to show a person you love them. You could be more understanding of his condition and learn what to do to make his life better.
2007-08-25 07:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might have something to do with the shots. Instead of asking us, why don't you ask your husband how he feels and why he doesn't want sex anymore. He's the only one that could help solve the problem.
2007-08-25 07:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it possibly be the medications he is taking that is causing his lack of libido or that he is scared? I would talk to his doctor about this development.
2007-08-25 06:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by ZERLA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have something else on his mind, try talking to HIM about it.
2007-08-25 06:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Phonebreaker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
or maybe!
he had fkn prostate cancer.
2007-08-25 06:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by B3. 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋