I'm a 12 year old male and today i had a horrible day and I can't stop crying
2007-08-24 19:32:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no way dude thats the strangest question ever
crying is natural , everyone crys , and even if you are gay it doesnt mean your gonna cry all day for no reason.
2007-08-24 19:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not gay to cry, especially if you are 12 years old. Everybody who is a real human being needs to cry sometimes. Men who say they don't are either lying, or have something so terribly wrong with them that you do not want to know them, they are dangerous.
It's OK to cry sweety, I'm so sorry you had such a horrible day. i wish i could hug you and make it better.
2007-08-29 05:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the crying that makes a man, masculine enough but what is inside the person, his sexual preference and his orientation as far as sex is concern. It is a far cry, that crying guy is more attach to her feminine side which is somewhat true if we will be dealing with science, when we talk about the X and Y chromosomes which are both present in Male.
2007-09-01 18:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is crying specifically 'gay'? All people cry - from anger, sorrow or even happiness. It's a purely natural reaction.
Don't buy into the whole thing about boys don't cry. If anything is complete bollocks, it's the idea that men can't cry when they're upset by things.
2007-08-24 19:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by chris m 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Crying is ok to do but you wll be seen as a crybaby if you let others see you cry on any regular basis. Gay or straight has nothing to do with it. no-one reacts well to seeing men crying. it isnt expected.
We don't like to see women cry either, because generally we don't know how to react but at least you can be sympathetic with a woman. Man to man sympathy is also viewed as slightly peculiar and most guys are uncomfortable with it.
Women are also turned off by it, however much they say they aren't. You can cry at funerals or the end of old yeller or out of joy when your team wins the cup.
But if you let out a tear of pain when you smash your thumb with the hammer you better hide it.
2007-08-31 01:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. The act of crying is a human display of emotion. The concept that men don't cry would be to say that men are not supposed to display emotion, as it would compromise their masculinity. Not displaying one's emotions would be denying your humanity. Crying is a biological process which is a coping mechanism for dealing with excess stress. When one's ability to cope with stress is completely used up, crying is usually the result. Crying releases stress hormones from the body, literally calming one down. Different people cope with stress in different ways, so what make you cry isn't necessarily going to make another person cry and vice versa. So no, crying dosen't make you gay. Crying isn't gay. It is a human defense mechanism for excess stress. Cry away.
2007-08-24 19:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not gay to cry. Why in the world do you think that the Lord gave you tear ducts, if you couldn't cry when things upset you? Cry until you feel better. Remember this, What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. - Psalm 68:19. Peace and God Bless.
2007-09-01 05:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with crying at all. In society ppl make it seem like a crime when a guy cries, but are more accepting to a female cryin. Either way its normal, its a shown emtion, and most likely if your crying its bc that emotion needs to be let out.So my answer for you is its deff. NOT gay to cry. Its normal, and a man that can cry is more of a man then one who wont.
2007-09-01 16:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Elle.walkie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it is not gay to cry!! It is a normal reaction when someone is stressed from a bad day, sad, or happy!! A good cry makes you feel better!!
2007-08-29 21:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by ziggy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No baby, crying isn't gay. You may be very well gay or whatever, but crying has no effect on your orientation. Sometimes, things get downright awful and the tears start flowing.
2007-08-24 20:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by jeremybradley2562 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not gay to cry.
Unless you are crying over a boy.
Humans have emotions and tear ducts... you sound stressed this is probably why you are crying.
Talk to someone on why or what is causing you to cry.
2007-08-29 22:38:00 · answer #11 · answered by MAC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋