i am 39 years old n my husband is doing no work simply sitting at home use to do fight with me what shall i do

Question

i have 2 daughter n 1 son n he is doing non madical but it will take 3 years to become engineer n my husband is doing no job n sitting at home n use to fight with me n my son simply we have farms n property of 1 crore but dont know how to use that because no body is there to do my husband dont know how to maintain business n my son is too small for this so what shall be the source of income how i spend my life from where shall i earn money plz tell me that how could i make the source of income should i wait for my son that he willn earn n give me or what else we have plots in a city should we go in a town or city

Answer 1

I would kick his lazy *** out of the house until he comes back with a job. lool

Answer 2

try and get him help with dpression so he can get back to work or at least get unemployment and or disability. Also can/ do u work and can u sell or better yet rent out land. U could also borrow if u know ur son will make money but that can get nasty 2. I live in country now better life by far cheaper but jobs are harder to get keep city is reversed lived there 2

Good luck 2 u

Answer 3

it sound like you need to get some help in maintain the career
that you want, and how to go by it, but for now he need to be
working as well. it not fair that all the burden is on you. time
for him to get off his butt and do his part in this marriage.
then you can see what need to be done.

Answer 4

First try to communicate with your husband without violence. If that does not work then I guess a divorce or seek marriage counseling...

Answer 5

In a city there are more jobs and there is aide to help get you started, that is if you are in USA.

Answer 6

Learn how to spell and form sentences, and maybe we all will know what you're trying to say.

Answer 7

neither did I (understand much of what u were typing....gotta learn to spell and translate into understandable language)....but what I did get, ---
is that you have a deadbeat hubby.
Leave him....leave him now, cause he
will keep doing what he is doing unless
you make a move.....trust me.

Answer 8

Quit making your husband dinner. Tell him when he contributes, he can share.

Answer 9

Why are you so worried if you own so much land, you must have some money!

Answer 10

start with freelancing