don't take me wrong. We have been going through lots of fights and all that/ Wt r signs which shows he love me as his one of top priorities.
2007-08-24 18:23:33 · 11 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The fact that he stays with you through all the fighting is a sign that he loves you...actions speak louder than words.
2007-08-24 18:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's willing to work with you on the cause of the fights - he's trying to make things right. Neither of you should be exasperating the other one. Marriage is a partnership or union as it's called where you are to help eachother reach common goals (i.e. - paying the bills by going to work, keeping eachother happy, raising your children-if any, etc...) when you both become a hindrance to one another that's a sign things need to change and if you're both willing to change and make it work that's a clear sign that things can be better and love can be restored. The way I see it, you and your spouse may always love eachother, but you need to like eachother too.
2007-08-25 01:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by christie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you have to test your husbands love for you than I think you may have a problem and at the very least you are insecure. Love isn't a game and anyone that needs constant reassurance needs help.
2007-08-25 01:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is a POISON dead potion, and one of you must drink it to get out of the situation. He takes the chance. After drinking the dead potion & before he dies, he would say
I LOVE YOU deeply from his heart, I will always be in your HEART, your SOUL, your MIND forever even I was not in this world anymore. Sorry, too extreme, but the point is if he is ready to do anything to make you happy or to die for u to make you live, then there is sincere LOVE.
LOVE is ACCEPTANCE, UNDERSTANDING & SACRIFICE.
2007-08-25 01:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by anwar.tirta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) He goes to work and brings home a paycheck.
2) He talks with you.
3) He cares about you.
4) If you have children with him, he loves and cares about them, too.
5) He is nice to your family.
6) He wants to see you happy and make you happy.
7) He talks about the future with you.
8) He is nice to you.
2007-08-25 01:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I usually don't recommend books because I hate it when people recommend them to me, but I honestly wish I could buy "Love & Respect" for every married (and engaged) person I know. So try and hear me out...
It states that a woman's driving need is to feel loved and when she feels loved she feels happy. A man's driving need is to feel respect and when he feels respected he is happy. When a woman feels unloved she acts out disrespectfully to her husband, and when a man feels disrespected he acts out unlovingly towards his wife and the crazy cycle begins.
If this is setting off any light bulbs for you read on...
"I wrote this book out of desperation that was turned into inspiration. As a pastor, I counseled married couples and could not solve their problems. The major problem I heard from wives was, "He doesn't love me." Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love. Many husbands fail to deliver. But as I kept studying Scripture and counseling couples, I finally saw the other half of the equation. Husbands weren't saying it much, but they were thinking, "She doesn't respect me." Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect. Many wives fail to deliver. The result is that five out of ten marriages land in divorce court (and that includes evangelical Christians).
As I wrestled with the problem, I finally saw a connection: without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love. Around and around it goes. I call it the Crazy Cycle - marital craziness that has thousands of couples in its grip."
I am not even half-ways through the book and workbook, and while my husband is not studying the material with me it has already worked miracles in my no-longer-failing marriage.
If you do believe in God I highly recommend this biblically based book. It's not a "religious freak" book or anything but it's nice to know that it is based on things in the bible and not just some theory or pop psychology book, and it's been a #1 seller for over 2 years now... it's working for thousands of couples!
2007-08-25 23:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you are still together that is a pretty good sign that he loves you.
2007-08-25 01:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try checking cell phone records when the bill comes in.
2007-08-25 01:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All I'm sayn is a jar of Vaseline and a rubber glove.
2007-08-25 02:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a little late sweetie to start wondering if the man u married loves you isnt it
2007-08-25 01:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋