Hi My bf and I live in different cities right now ( 450 miles of distance) and for strong reasons we can't be together yet. We hope to solve our situation by the beginning of next year. But i feel so sad and cry a lot because i wish to be beside him right now; and i feel will be an eternity to me wait so much time. How can i deal with my sad heart? Sometimes i feel i'm getting crazy, my bf knows that; but we have no choise for the moment....just wait. I miss him every minute.
Any abvice will be welcome. Thanks a lot!!
2007-08-24 18:11:13 · 7 answers · asked by My ♥ Is In The City By The Bay! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi, I can feel how you feel, I'm even worse, I have to leave my wife and my two little cute children. Then the worst my wife is having pregnancy for my third one. So you see, there are still people out there who has the same problem with you or even worse. I know how you feel, but feel HAPPY, think of your FUTURE, get some activities, make some friends, but please maintain COMMUNICATION with you bf, use technology, you can see each other using internet connection, stay in phone, or probably do some hobbies which you want to do before. Keep praying, He will hear you and GIVE u a WAY, give u the BEST for your LIFE and FUTURE.
2007-08-24 19:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by anwar.tirta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG..I feel your pain. Well, first of all, you have to accept the fact that you can't be together right now and think positive. Try to keep yourself entertained. Go out with your friends, pick up a hobbie, do what you love. In the meantime, keep in contact with your bf. E-mail him, talk to him on the phone, and write to him. Also, start planning ahead. What things do you need to prepare when you two can finally be together, especially if you are planning a wedding. Well, hope my ideas helped at least a little. Stay strong and think of all the positive memories you have of your bf to help you feel better :) Good luck!
2007-08-25 01:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by NFM 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save up a little money so each of you can buy a video phone, that way when you talk, you can see each other....or send video messages using a camcorder....or get a webcam. That way you don't always have to seem so far apart.
2007-08-25 01:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a F buddy to take the edge off.
2007-08-25 02:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant deal with it,, if you cant be together for what ever the]
reason are. then you need to just make the best of things
until you can but trust me it will get much harder for both of
you.but if it really meant to be , then it will be. but i would
be honest with myself, on how much i can truly bare.
2007-08-25 01:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him why maybe
so he might wait
2007-08-25 01:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a fill in, untill u can be with him
2007-08-25 01:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋