And when both men know the woman is doing this why do they continue to believe her and allow this to happen? What kind of woman is this and does she ever change? I have a friend allowing a woman to do this and it is making me sick. I have offered up my advise and there is nothing more I can do. The woman is playing him and he is so in love he says, because the woman says she wants to spend a life with him. I don't see how when she leaves him then comes back after a month or so. THis is a pattern.
2007-08-24 18:01:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you even want a woman when you had to worry about her leaving you for the other man? You know she is telling each of them the same thing about how she messed up, she really loves you, she wants to be with you and her heart was always with you she just made a mistake and so forth. WOW! Men can be stupid to believe this. Denial? Naive? I'm not sure. Definitely in the obsessed stage because that isn't love.
2007-08-24 18:10:00 · update #1
I sure wish I could help him because I can see some terrible things she is doing. But if I continue to tell him this he will probably start to hate me. So I will just have to leave it alone until she has done him really bad I guess. RIght? Nothing i can really tell a man that is in love i guess.
2007-08-24 18:14:17 · update #2
This woman is doing it just because she can. Your friend is like a dog....will still come and lick the hand that just hit him. She is getting away with it because your friend just accepts it. It is too bad...but until your friend can see through the rose colored glasses...she will continue to get away with whatever she can get away with.
2007-08-24 18:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think given the fact that men speak less words per day than women it is concerning that so many lies come out in that limited amount of words. I forget what the stats are but women speak like 5 times more words per day than men. So basically every other thing coming out of their mouths is a lie? Who knows
2016-05-17 08:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do this because, no one stops them, love doesnt mean the same thing as it once did, no one cares about the other person or there feelings, they all seem to be someone who uses another person for there personal gain
2007-08-24 18:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because nobody in the mix has any self esteem and they are all afraid of being alone.
2007-08-24 18:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to terribly jealous to make a rational decision. Time for you to get your own life drama king.
2007-08-24 18:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by johngolfs2002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your doing the best thing for yourself in this matter...... learning what not to do. Sick by your friend and don't say "told you so" when this all goes wrong, and it will.
2007-08-24 19:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋