how can i grow some balls, i cry off of stoopit stuff and i dont have balls,like, when im playing sports, people will do something like throw MY basketball somewhere and i cant get it back, and i wont do anything.
also, little kids from ages 6-12 taunt me, i could be walkin down the street and some kid will be like "lookit u you big bum, u aint shlt!" and i will say something like isnt it past his bedtime, and he will say isnt it my bedtime, and i will feel stoopid because i DO have a bedtime and i probably go to bed earlier than he does.
, its like ima joke, sorta like the movie "me. myself, and Irene"
just answer how i can get some backbone plz, dont say something like "dont let poeple push u around!" or, "tell those kids to kindly give u your ball back"
that doesnt help me at all
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2007-08-24 17:55:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just do what you feel like doing and forget about how other people will react. What do you have to lose? You may find it more enjoyable than trying to trade insults with children, which I doubt you really want to do in the first place.
2007-09-01 11:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dutchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what Maxwell is saying is good advice. (LOL Without the craking heads bit)
Confidence is what you need. It is a matter of how you carry yourself. Try to act with the confidence that you may not feel.at the moment. The rest will follow. Hold your head high and your spirits up. With confidence comes an air about you that no-one is going to mess with. If you act like it doesn't bother you then pretty soon it won't. Rise above the taunts and smile at the little runts that are annoying you. That confuses them. Shrug it off.
Once you find that confidence within yourself, you will ask for the ball back and they will know that you mean it.
2007-09-01 15:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man thats really all there is. It starts with you and how you carry yourself. well you walk, you look up, dont look at the ground. Be proud of yourself. If that fails you can crack a few heads.
2007-08-24 18:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but that is so funny wat those lil kids say to u. Ok. Sorry. The next time those lil kids start sayin crap, go up to them and threaten to beat them up. If that dont work, then beat them up.
2007-09-01 12:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry about ur bad luck
2007-08-31 07:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl_purple123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋