Question for black women that are attracted to white men........?

Question

when and how did you realize that you were attracted to white men?

for me it was from a first love from high school ten years ago, funny though also that my mom told me the nurse who helped deliver me at my birth was a black lady and i got a first kiss in the first grade from a little black girl, but i never realized my attraction until high school. I have dated a few other races but since my first love,(that i wasn't involved with sexually by the way) I can't let go of my attraction

Answer 1

I think i pretty much came out the womb with a preference for white men! lol

I first realized my attraction to white men when I was 5. I saw this boy...I thought he was so beautiful...He had very, very light blonde hair (and to this day he still does!) and big dark blue eyes.

Those were the days! *grin*

After that I started having celeb crushes. Unlike other black girls, my crushes were unanimously white. I loved Johnny Depp, Keanu Reeves, George Micheal, and Tom Cruise.

Mmmmmmm Keanu Reeves!

My attraction to white men has strengthened over the years. For a time my crushes were black, and then they got lighter and lighter through the years. By high school I was dating white boys exclusively. Since then not only have the guys I've been dating been white, they are also getting blonder.

I don't know why I like white men so much, I just do.

I think they are beautiful.

Answer 2

I think it is number 1 because you have seen black men and white women for a long time and it is becoming more and more ok with people or normal. On the other hand i like white men and in school people don't like to see that for some reason. Over time I think it will be normal for a black women to date a white men

Answer 3

I'm a black female, and don't ever let go of that attraction if that's what you prefer. You can never fool yourself. I think it's great that you find us so attractive. I have had my share of interracial relationships and that includes white men too! I guess I never had a moment where I realized I was attracted to white men. I have always been the type that's just attracted to men in general.
With me I honestly don't see color. I guess you could call me color blind. When I'm attracted to a man I focus not only on how he looks, but mostly his personality and how compatible we are. I know right from the start if there is a true connection with that man. Color is not important to me. Never has been, never will be. There are too many good men in every race to only limit yourself to one particular race. That's why God made men of different colors and races. Diversity is so good!!!

Coming from a
Beautiful Black Woman!!!

Answer 4

Ur saying it like being white and being attracted to black women is a alien thing. It natural. Go with the flow. If your heart chooses a black girl, so be it, but it's no different from being attracted to a white girl or any other race. You'll find the good times to be the same, and the challenges to be the same in any race.
I'm black, and I think white men are hot. But is that like a "abnormal" thing? No, not at all.

Answer 5

It's just the person in general. As a white male i do find women in other races besides white to be exotic. this is because it is going outside of your usual realm. The one thing i did always find attractive about black women is that they seem to be more open and dont put on a facade as much as alot of white girls. I'm not saying all white girls are fake. In fact, i think age is a big factor as well. just go with what tickles your fancy.

Answer 6

I've liked white guys since Johnny Depp 21 Jump Street... never had to come to a realization... a good looking man is just that regardless of race.

Answer 7

I'm a kind of anything person if this counts. I am mostly attracted to mixed and white boys (I'm mixed by the way). I wouldn't turn someone down or ignore that I liked them based on race though, it's not a massive issue for me.

Answer 8

I'm a black woman not attracted to the race of a man but to their person. In other words, I'm not solely attracted to a particular race but it depends on the individual- he can be of any race.

Answer 9

I became attracted at the age of 18 when given an opportunity to become a model.

Answer 10

Don't let go of your attraction, embrace it. The more people see that love has no color, the more barriers and guards are going to be brought down. Sorry if that's not answering your question, but just thought I'd let you know that.