I Havn't Started My Periods Yet? What's Wrong?

Question

I'm 14, And Still Havn't Started.
Is There Something Wrong With Me?
Apparently, You Start When Your Mum Starts.
My Mum Was 11 When She Started.
Is This Normal?
And When I Do Start, What Is There To Expect?
Pain Ect.
Sensible Answers Please

No, I'm Not Pregnant. I'm A Virgin LOL

Answer 1

Dont worry i was 15 when i started mine
yours will come soon
believe me
and its not too bad i dont cramp too much
and its not painful really at all
just dont worry
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Answer 2

Most women do start within a year of when their mom did, but that isn't always a reliable guide by any means... It is PERFECTLY NORMAL for many girls not to start their periods until 16 or 17. The rule of thumb is that if you haven't started bleeding by your 18th birthday, then you see an ob/gyn doctor.

Some girls have a hymen that completely covers the entrance to their vagina, and this prevents blood from flowing out. If this is a problem, you would most likely see significant pain in the region, and you might see a slight bulge in the stomach due to all the blood being stored up. This can be corrected quickly and easily by a doc. You might try inserting a finger or small, SOFT object to see if it penetrates properly.

Nutrition plays a huge role in when you start your cycles. Girls who are underweight have delayed periods, while girls who carry extra weight tend to start early. My wife was a chubby child and started when she was 10, whereas her skinny mother didn't begin until 14. Are you under your ideal weight? If so, you might need to look at getting better nutrition.

All-in-all, don't sweat it for several more years... Heck, be grateful you don't have to put up with the fuss and bother for now! As to what you can expect, ask any of your older female relatives. Many many women don't have really ugly side effects from their periods, but most have at least some. Periods with high levels of cramping, pain, heavy flow, etc tend to run in families, so they might be a guide on what to expect...
Best wishes,
Ed, RN

Answer 3

Don't worry. Your periods haven't started yet because you are just developing later / are still deeloping. The normal age for periods to start is anything from 12 to 16. There is nothing wrong with you. You don't start when your mum started because you are an individual. Every person is different and develops differently. When you do start your first couple will probably be light and not hurt but then they might be hevier and you might experience some cramps when you are on your period.

Answer 4

There is still a big variation, 100 years ago menarche ( onset of periods ) was on average 16 1/2 ! It has now dropped to around 12 years, but 15 is not rare. What to expect is something you should chat to mum about, but I am sure you know the gist, bleeding, some crams and maybe mood changes.

Answer 5

my mum was 13 and i was 15 don't panic if you have not started by 18 or so then yes that's not normal and as for the pain you might a get cramping sensation or nothing. I didn't know it just happened for me no pain or any thing but every one is different so just wait to see. Oh if there is pain use a hot water bottle that should help.

Answer 6

everyone is different, you only need to worry if they havent started by the time you are about 16, meantime think yourself lucky! it doesnt bear any relation to when your mum started, i was 14 but 2 of my daughters were 10, the other 12 and the last one 13. as for what to expect then everyone is different, although it can be genetic. just be prepared and dont worry, talk to your mum or an older sister. u can take painkillers if you get pain and a hot water bottle is always helpful. good luck and dont worry your time will come.

Answer 7

It's normal and not unheard of. Genes of multiple generations affect your body, so don't worry if your mother got it before you. If still uneasy go and talk to a licensed ginecologist that can ultrasound your belly and check if you're developing normally.
Usually before your period (at least the first time) a mucosity --clear and NOT foul smelling- exits the uterus. This is a sign that you're going to start having periods very soon.
Sometimes you have PMS a day or two before your period. You can get cranky, weepy, bloated or have some zits (this is due to all the raging hormones in your system). A normal period lasts between three to seven days and sometimes you get abdominal cramps (i suggest to take special pills and use warm pads if you get these).
During your first periods the interval between them is irregular lasting from two weeks to even a couple of months. After a year or so you get them once a month.
When should you worry about your period? After your sixteenth birthday, so keep enjoying your PMS free life while you can!
What can you read now? A book about girl's development. I had one called 'What's happening to my body?' pretty useful and nice to read.

Answer 8

Yes, It is perfectly normal. It does not always necessary mean that you start when your mum starts. Don't worry too much. Yours will come. Only by the age of 16-ish and it still does not come then you should consult a doctor. It is different for everyone on their first time. For me, I didn't experience any pain at all. In fact, I only found out hours later when i went to the toilet. If you're still worried and shy to consult a doctor, talk to your mum about it first.

Answer 9

I don't think there is anything wrong. If you don't start by the time you are 16 though I would get it checked out. When you start you may have some slight discomfort (cramps) or they may be quite painful. It just depends on how your body will react. I would keep a pad or tampon with you just in case you aren't home when it happens. You may want to wait to try the tampon, or you may not. That's completely up to you. But I hope this helps. Any other questions let me know.

Answer 10

i didnt start until i was nearly 16 hunny
i get awful period pains but depends on each person. you may only get a bit of pain or not at all but there are tablets to help you
my mum started at 14 and i didnt till nearly 16 i have 3 sisters one started when she was 15 and the other when she was 14 i still have a 13 year old who aint started yet

dont rush it when it is here you will wish you hadnt started haha

Answer 11

I know many, including myself, who didn't start until I was 15. Nothing to worry about. I think it happens later when you are smaller and develop later. (I was pretty thin and small and didn't even start developing until I got my period.) It is normal for you. You may get some cramping and have tender breasts. Just be prepared and have some pads available for when you need them. Make sure you change them often and keep yourself clean, washing the area when you change. Keeps things clean and fresh. Have some Midol on hand in case you feel a little crampy. It's all part of life and the introduction to becoming a woman.