i have like him for a year im going in 7th grade he has like me before but that ended soon cuz im so shy around him! it feels like we already know eachother! we're ment to be together its one of them thing i just know somehow! when i talk to him in person or on the phone i can hear it in his voice , i see it in his eyes, and i think we will fall in love one day everytime we touch! i cant explain my feelings and how many times i have tried to get over him but i failed. its just too painful and too painful to like him so much! i just dont know what to do! i know he gets tired and annoyed of me because im still so ignorant and my feelings sometimes take over and say stupid things! we havent done anything more drastic than him touching my hair! but he cant wait for me much longer and plus im not allowed to date yet! im tired of seeing him with other girls he dates :-(! but ill never let go bcuz in my heart i know he is the one!! i am stuck right now! any advice would be helpful!??
2007-08-24 15:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by AlwAysAdreAmer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
were both 13 and sometimes i brake down crying! its complicated!??
2007-08-24 15:59:20 · update #1
First of all, you are 13 - he is so NOT "the one". He isn't Mr. Right, he's Mr. Right Now - you are going to be such a different person in 10 years and so is he. I wish I could e-mail what you've written here to you in 10 years - you would be so mortified! If you're holding onto him this tight now, he will eventually feel like you are smothering him and he will leave you for good. There is a reason that you aren't allowed to date yet - you're too young to know the difference between real love and infatuation. Give yourself some room to grow up and let him do the same. If it is meant to be then it will be - if not - don't ruin any chance you have at friendship with this guy by being so set on him being "the one." You're too young to be making this decision yet - for you and for him.
2007-08-24 17:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by JVar 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can feel how you feel at your age. When you think you love someone, and that you are not allowed yet. But think of your FUTURE. You are still young, still have lots lots of opportunity to make friends even all around the world. Do you think it's better one day, after you have finished your school, graduate, work, become an executive, then start to date. I'm sure lots of gentleman will respect you. You can have everything at that time, loves, happiness, and all you want. Believe me. Again you are still so young to understand love. Just LOVE your parents first, become a success lady, then one day you can share with me. I want to hear your SUCCESS stories in your future.
2007-08-24 23:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by anwar.tirta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, your problem is pretty common, but if you're not allowed to date yet, theres not a lot you can do.
I guess the best thing isto let him go, until you are ready or old enough to date, you're 13, so you have plenty of time to see him in the future.
Good Luck
2007-08-24 23:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to lighten up a little for your own good. Don't take it so seriously,. take it S L O W and easy. Remember that the best and longest relationships start with just a spark before the fire gets raging.
2007-08-24 23:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to move on,flash on someone who can make u feel YOU,in the cafeteria,be with some friends and be happy try to not care to much about him.be you.i know it's hard but try,and maybe he will want you when he saw u can be really you...and u gonna forget about him in a coupls of month,it's strong but not for life
2007-08-24 23:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by haitian_flirt1126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I would tell you to spend lunch with him at the school cafeteria but then again that might get you in trouble. But that would NOT REALLY BE A DATE. You might call it a trial date.
2007-08-24 23:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by thetechnitiondude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 13. It's puppy love, infatuation, hormones. It can't be love at your age, especially when you haven't even actually dated. At 13 and with no dating experience, he can't possibly be "the one" you'll be with forever
2007-08-24 23:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that he doesn,t love you.i think i will never refuse the date with a girl who i love.bcuz i am a boy,i know boys better.if he doesn,t love you, it will be improbabe for him to recieve you as his gf.you are so young,forget him,and wait another excellent boy~
2007-08-24 23:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well I'm 32 and still dealing with the same crap so good luck to you but it doesn't get any easier
2007-08-24 23:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋