I'm a club-a-holic, and I usually never never take a guy home with me... I always use protection, and I usually never get completely drunk. I was so drunk that I forgotten most of what happen that night... I rememder I was at a club talking to some guy and then I take a taxi home.. I woke up the next morning with some white guy looking at me. I'm serious!!! I ask him did he use a condom and he say no. I said, "what!!!??" I'm so afriad I might be pregnant right now. I am Junior in college, I can't be pregnant!! If I'm pregnant I would want to abort it... But, I know that isn't right.. I would hate to kill an innocent child. The guy take a shower, and eventually left to go to work... I'm so scaried right now.. My family is very racist...What should I do?
I just hope I'm not pregnant.. If I am this would be my first child...
2007-08-24 11:09:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I not asian, I'm black!!!
2007-08-24 11:16:59 · update #1
this is just ridiculous. Go take a test for pregnancy - stop drinking and start taking care of your grades.
2007-08-24 11:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
So what you screwed a white guy while drunk. The bigger problem is you screwed a GUY you didn't know while drunk. Get over the race thing, and go to rehab, you might have a drinking problem. Go to the doctor take a test, and have better control on how much you drink while you're out for now on. You are probably not pregnant, but go back to the doctor in 6 months to get initial test to make sure you're clean. Good luck and be smart!
2007-08-24 11:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What I don't understand is why does his skin colour has to be involved with this ? You sound so ignorant The problem is you had sex with a GUY while you were drunk.
Get a pregnancy test done and If you are pregnant I will advice you to NOT ABORT the baby. It's not your choice to decide whether a human been should live or not. God will.
This baby that you want to abort could be a teacher,president,inventor, the NEXT Bill Gates,he or she could actually be someone who could do something wright in this crazy world
It's funny how people are so ready to have sex but can't take the responsibility to take care of a child when they find out there pregnant. It takes SEX to create a child.
Be a good lady and take care of it. God will help you. You got to remember that God never gives us something we CAN'T handle. Think about that
2007-08-25 11:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Gold Coast Queen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you're not going to get any sympathy from me. You've made horrid mistakes and now you're contemplating making another one!
IF you are pregnant, keep it or give it up for adoption, but don't kill him/her; they don't deserve it.
Don't be so irresponsible miss JUNIOR in college. You know sometimes I think college people are just the most dumbest when it comes to common sense and YEAH I'm a college student with 3 majors.
RJ shut the hell up! She might've made some mistakes and possibly another one but I won't tolerate someone speaking that way about a fellow sista of mine. You can kick rocks, bruh.
LET ME EXPLAIN WHY SHE SAID "WHITE GUY." But before I explicate let me unequivocally assert that not too long ago a White young man said he saw a hot "black chick" on the elevator. I didn't get all upset. I just assumed he isn't used to being around Black women and that's what it was; he didn't know how to describe what he was feeling towards this "black chick." Most often if we are not used to being around other people of a different race we tend to attach their race to how attractive they are, I've done that.
So, she said "White Guy" cuz she isn't used to being with a White guy it's something new for her.
SEETHEWORLD: So, if someone killed your "cell" you'd be ok? MOST people aren't emotionally detached like you are, so you can take your scientific rationalization for killing another person who could've been the person that might have to save you if ever needed and shove it!
RALPH V I think you have a crush on me! LOL, if you can read and by that I mean read it PROPERLY, you would've seen that I'd all ready explicated. It was my very last sentence before addressing SEETHEWORLD.
2007-08-24 11:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do first of all is take a deep breath.Breathe in and out until you are calm enough.
If you are not a church going person, then, just this once, walk into any church ,go down on your knees and pray. You don't even have to go to church, just kneel down in your room and seriously pray to God.
Just tell him, you made a mistake.And that you never wanted any of this to happen.Also say, you are not ready to raise a child now.
It will work.Just believe in everything you are asking.
Matthew 7:7 States that, We should ask and it shall be given unto us.
It worked for me!
2007-08-24 11:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understood how some people claim to not know what they are doing when they are drunk. I get drunk and I always know what I am doing- even if I am sooo sick.
Don't do stupid things like this and whatever happens, I hope you are not that person who would abort the child.
2007-08-24 11:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bien Chula 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would not be worring about my family being racist right now,you should feel ashame and not because he is white going to a bar and just take someone home with you,what are you thinking.Get into your books and study,you may get something you cant get rid of.
2007-08-24 11:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a white guy what is wrong with white guys are u racist or something............Just give the baby up for adoption come on that hard just go sign some papers meet the adoption parents then go on with your live
2007-08-27 23:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO he told you he didn't use protection then just got a shower and went to work? lmao he doesn't even care! Okay when was it? Is it too late to use the pill? This is why i'm never getting drunk.
2007-08-24 15:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to Planned Parenthood; this is what they do.
As for the rest; you say your family is racist yet the way you present the situation (with a white guy!!!??) leads me to believe you have a bit of a racist streak yourself.
How would you feel if I told the same story (I'm a white guy) and said "with a black chick!!??! You'd feel put down, wouldn't you?
2007-08-24 11:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
well if this happened like less than 5 days ago then you still have a chance to take the morning after pill. Go to the clinic right now though!!!
2007-08-24 12:35:08 · answer #11 · answered by Sexxiii 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋