my mom has been in the hospital for about 2 days. she was having really bad stomach aches and so we took her. The doctors are keep giving us the run around it seems and I don't know what to do. My mom has been bleeding from her vaginal area but the thing is she got a hysterechtamy about 4-5 months ago. Is this normal or not? I don't think it is and the scary part is that last night the nurse asked her to pee in a hat and she has been having a hard time going pee pee and she tried and I was in the restroom with her. She told me that she was going pee pee and I could hear it. When she got up the hat was full of blood and it seemed to have a lot of red chunky stuff in it. She was scared and i told her not to panic that she was ok. I called the nurse and she told me they were going to call a dr. but they didn't because they said her blood discharge was normal and that her blood pressure was normal too so they had no need to call him. what is going on here??? I want to know what is wrong .
2007-08-24
10:20:39
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I talked to my sister earlier and she told me that they said she had bone cancer I don't know what kind of bone cancer and what does her stomach pain and bleeding have to do with bone cancer??? It makes no sense at all... Please help any information would be greatly apreciated. I LOVE MY MOM so much this is really hard and i just need answers... Getting second opinion for sure!!
2007-08-24
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You need to tell your other family members how scared you are because you don't understand what is going on. The doctors and nurses do know what they are doing.
I worked with cancer patients in a hospital probably just like where your mom is now. We, the nurses, dealt with the family almost as much as the patients.
Of course you love your mom, and I know without a doubt that she loves you. Talk to your other family members that are there. Tell them that you want to know what is going on and deserve to be told. Just remember how great you were when your mom was scared in the bathroom. She needs you to be strong now.
Email me if you want. God be with you an your family.
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I really feel for this young lady. I fear she has a hard road ahead.
2007-08-24 10:35:58
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answered by MisMischievous 6
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answered by Anonymous
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Be patient and try to chill. Your mom is in good hands but these types of things sometimes take time to get to the bottom of. A hysterectomy is not all that unusual and actually could prevent your mom from developing certain types of cancers.
Here's what I think you might be able to do. Look, sometimes doctors can be very intimidating and in a big hurry. Ask to speak to the RN who is assigned to your mom. Approach her away from your mom and ask her if you could just have a few minutes of her time to address a few of your concerns because you're afraid and worried. Nine times out of ten, she'll sense the depth of your concern and will take the time to tell you what is going on with Mom. RN's are very caring people and are the soul of any hospital.
Remember one thing, these gals (and guys) are greatly overworked and always pressed for time. So if she can't get to you right away, don't think she is "blowing you off."
Be strong.
2007-08-24 10:39:30
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answered by soulguy85 6
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I think the most important thing adult family members can do at a time like this is to be a pain in the *** to the doctors and nurses (in a polite, discreet way). They typically will pay more attention to you if you keep demanding answers (outside the presence of your mother). She does not need the stress or to be the bad guy when it comes to the medical professionals, but from my experience, you will be ignored and put on the back burner unless you are pushy. (always courteous and thankful, but demanding) Your mom deserves the best care, and you all desearve to know the differential diagnosis.
2007-08-24 10:30:01
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answered by Dr 8'lls 4
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The only advice I am qualified to give has to do with mom and her care while in the hospital. From experience with both of my elderly parents:
1. Someone be in mom's hospital room with mom at all times possible - ESPECIALLY at night. You will need to get with your family members and friends, and your mom's friends, to take turns staying all night with her. The hospital will bring you a little cot or something to sleep on. The reason is because patients are neglected and ignored at night, and mom doesn't feel well enough to stand up for herself. So you or someone be there to make sure the nurse comes when called and to fetch mom water and coffee and sodas or whatever she wants.
2. Be there in mom's room EARLY in the morning when doctors make their rounds - that way you can actually speak with her own doctor.
3. Be there in mom's room at different times during the day - don't just come at 2:00 in the afternoon every day. This is because you want the nursing staff to know they can't get away with any crap with mom because her darn family is always popping in at different hours.
4. If you are displeased, demand to speak with the Charge Nurse. That's the head nurse in charge. But you have to be nice because you don't want to cuss out the nurses and then have them take it out on mom.
5. Watch mom's care and feel free to complain. If they are not gentle enough with mom, if they are rude, if unsanitary conditions, anything that concerns you. When they say, "We need for you to step out so we can (do whatever)" you tell them, "No, I stay with my mom. I'll stand over here out of the way." Don't leave the room - it is unnecessary for one thing.
6. I know you're happy to do all this for mom, and what you may find is an added benefit to you - a closer relationship with mom. Lots of good talking gets done in those pre-dawn hours. You will never regret looking after her now.
2007-08-24 10:33:10
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answered by suzanne g 6
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hi i know how hard it can be when u are confused. i am a nurse. the best thing for u to do is tell the doctors that u want a "family meeting" then set a time with them and your family write down all the questions you want the answers to before you go. then make sure you get the answers before they leave.
2007-08-24 10:26:39
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answered by lynne h 2
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I honestly don't know.
She could possibly be having a left over period and is having premenstrual cramps. She could also be having a miscarriage. There is alot of cramping and times and there is a gush of blood. It can happen several times.
I would demand to have a doctor see her and tell her what is going on. She is entitled to that information and care.
They should have taken blood tests for lab work. Ultrasounds?
Good Luck Honey - If she has a regular doctor call him!
I will pray for your mom and your family.
2007-08-24 10:32:09
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answered by miz_brittney 2
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You have to trust in the doctors opinions. Believe me if it was life threatening, she would be in surgery immediately and not walking herself to the bathroom. Let the doctor's do their thing and just think positive!
2007-08-24 10:24:31
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answered by Kevin D 2
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Take her to a different hospital!
They don't sound like they know squat about what's going on with your mom! It sounds really serious and needs immidiate attention!
Protect your mommy - get her butt outta there! Get a second and third opinion.
2007-08-24 10:23:32
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answered by Anonymous
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You are doing the worst possible thing you can do, which is ask people on the Internet who have no clue.
Keep bugging the doctors. If you are a kid then get an adult to do it for you.
2007-08-24 10:24:21
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answered by Anonymous
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