Just got back to grad school, and this girl in my class has really been working my nerve. She is really controll and manipulative. Last year we were like friends, but after I realize she seemed to be having too much fun putting me down,- I distance myself from her. She inturn became buddy buddy with this other mutual friend of ours. Since we have been back, she has become super jealous whenever she sees the other girl and I talking. She was even really rude to me on one occasion- So I just ignored her. Now- she is distancing herself from me (which I don't really mind). My question is, should I just ignore her, or still be nice to her and keep her at a distance?
2007-08-24 10:00:21 · 3 answers · asked by breezy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look in the mirror and what do you see?For the most part , we see an image that we like.Now would you do anything to tarnish that image.From everything I have come to glean about you, the answer is a resounding no.Hence, do not allow this mutual friend to make you forget this fact and force you into becoming someone or something that you are not.If she is pleasant and nice to you ,then reciprocate.If on the other hand, she is rude, jealous of your friendship with the other girl(that is not your problem) then go about your business and ignore her.You have too much class,a desire to succeed, and a positive personality to allow distractions like this.Don't give her the opportunity.Good luck in school this term.
2007-08-24 13:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom of 6 teenage boys. They have all gone threw the same thing you are. Deep down I know it hurts you, but you need to move on. Keep your distance, but be pleasant if she says hello, do the same. You never know things could change for the better. Show her you are the better person, don't belittle your self over any girl. Good luck to you.
2007-08-24 17:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep your distance, don't talk to her. If she continues to put you down and acting jealous, then talk to her about it, like tell her what she's been doing that bothers you. But for the most part, ignore her, she's just has low self esteem.
2007-08-24 17:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by rock star girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋