well honestly speaking i am a decent guy.i really hate flirting.my problem is (may be because of films and ekta kapoor's serials) i dont have good opinion about any girl in this world.they have made me believe that girls are very filthy and frauds.they have made me think that, in this modern india no girl (after getting married) can be trusted about her fidelity.In many tv serials they show a girl falling in love with a man..marrying someother person...but then not giving much attention towards her husband and try to be very intimate with her ex-lover saying that she was and will be her good friend..isn't this a bad thing?i really dont know whether such things do happen in real life.my classmates(girls)who very friendly with me at the begining of my clg have suddenly started neglecting and underestimating me a lot after my poor performance in exams.then have now shifted their attention towards other boys who in their absence talk very badly about their character and their physique.if
2007-08-24 09:55:02 · 4 answers · asked by aaryra 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
those say that i talked very badly about them(girls)they easily believe and intentionally insult me by chatting with those guys and not even utter a single word with me when i am during the chat.But there is one thing ie whenever i am well dressed or whenever a situation happens in which it shows my financial status, they(girls)talk with me for one or the other reason.To be honest i am the only one in my class who dresses very well.Eventhough they are like this,"i unknowingly get very angry when anyone talks badly about them".I also know that all the girls will not be bad but the above said things have made me doubt every girl.I am sure that in future i cant have a happy married life bcoz of "doubting" attitude.On the other hand, my frnds talk very badly about each other's sisters in one's absence which has made me not to trust them or keep contact after getting married."I really have great respect for the women folk" .So plz give some advice so that i can have a peaceful life
2007-08-24 10:16:33 · update #1
Hi, sadly you have met the wrong type of people. Do not let this rock your confidence. There are decent girls out there but do be patient and you will meet the right one.
I do not know what your religion is, if any at all, but there are good Christian sites around and there are some wonderful people on there, the girls are honest and true, they too have had bad experiences with boys/men but they do not hold it against the entire population of men, they keep their heads up, minds open and judge each person on their own merits. As I have said, be patient, look to the future with calmness and openess and do not let yourself become bitter for there is no reason to be. I have met many girls on here who come across as decent friendly honest and open people. Good luck
2007-08-24 10:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen you made this question to long
if you want to know how to get a girl you like to like you back
this is what you do
Watch alot of ROMANCTIC FILMS
and then be that romantic Man they dream about
WHO CARES ABOUT GRADES AT SCHOOL
A woman wants a good provider, and romance
so get a job that pays pretty decent, enough so she can stay home with her children.
and Be sweet with her, buy her flowers, and nice jewelry, trust me we all like this.
when in the company of other women, Keep your eye only on your girl, and when in the company of other men, keep your eyes only on your woman,
If a man says something sexist, defend your woman, even if its not directed towards her. Any sexist comment hurts all women
My husband said something to me last night it was true
He has a friend who has been looking to get married for sometime, he finds a flaw in every girl
one girl was perfect, in almost every way
except she was young and wanted to go dancing and have fun
so i said to my husband " he should have married that girl she would have grown out of the partying stage"
he said NO he should have married her and gave her a baby and then there would be no more partying.
AND that was the most true thing i have heard in a while.
Good luck
Meg
2007-08-24 10:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the basis of any relationship... if you perceive that people cannot be trusted, you will believe it...
2007-08-24 23:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by u2care123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happened in life, please have patience and face them.
2007-08-25 06:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋