I am a metrosexual (dress nice, do stuff with my hair, love shopping, pretty much being gay without liking guys), and everyone thinks i'm gay. I have a girlfriend, but everyone says it's just a coverup and there have been rumors of me being gay for about 3 years now. What should I do?
2007-08-24 09:54:12 · 16 answers · asked by Matt B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Dear Matt,
(I'm still ROTFLMAO over the fact that squeaky beat me to MY punchline.)
The truth is people LOVE to talk. they don't need a reason or proof.
So long as you and she are happy together let the rest go. sooner or latter the gang will find someone new to gossip about and move on.
Hugs,
PennyAnn
2007-08-24 10:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
start screwin with their heads. sounds like the refuse to change their minds, so dont worry about it and have fun with it!
the people closest to you and that matter most know you are not gay. so F all the others and have fun with it man!
You only live once!
2007-08-24 17:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as yourself, but from a personality and attitude P.O.V. I'd say somehow make it be known you are not. Wear a ring. That usually works.
2007-08-24 18:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tavi Munkart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you dress like, who you are, what clique you feet in, people are always going to assume something of you. Just try your best to ignore it. Great catharsis would be sites like this though, I don't know if it would be more frustrating if you can't get answers though.
2007-08-24 23:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can honestly do is just be yourself and not concern yourself with what others think.
The harder you try to make people believe your "not gay" the more they're going to assume you're hiding something.
2007-08-24 17:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Linda J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people thinking you're gay is more than just how you look and dress. even straight people have good gaydar. did you even think that maybe you are gay and are just in denial? or maybe you are bi since you have a girlfriend and are attracted to her (assumption)?
2007-08-24 17:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by . 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get'cha one o' them big ol' beer guts.. chew tobacco and spit a lot.. scratch yer a.ss often.. belch more often.. talk about T and A ALL THE TIME and rearrange yer... er... "package" everytime someone looks at you.
Yep. That should hush those people up right smart quick.
*edit*
Penny, me darlin' girl.. sorry about that. Sometimes I just cant hold it in, you know what I mean? *ewg*
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2007-08-24 17:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Danger OReilly 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why try and cover them up? if you are straigh and love your girlfriend that is fine. its more fun aswell if people think you are gay coz you can screw with their minds haha
2007-08-24 17:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem because of how i dress
i just brought my girly side out more and saved the butch side of me for the pub
2007-08-24 17:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Secret Lemonade Drinker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start using less makeup for starters.
2007-08-24 17:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋