i am in love deeply with my childs father same person as 15 year relationship/longterm.
2007-08-24 09:49:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your child should have nothing to do with the success or failure of your relationship with his/her father. If the relationship is falling apart then try to work at it but if he is unwilling to salvage the relationship then you will have to let him go. Dragging out an unhealthy relationship is terrible for anybody and if your child is a witness to you two arguing, fighting, etc, then he/she will become involved but in a very negative way. If it's time to let this relationship go then let it go. Don't try to hold on to it if it's not meant to be.
2007-08-24 09:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your question? there is no details. if the relationship is going sour get out. if the child is there dont stay unhappy for the childs sake! but because of the child you to should remain adults about the situation and remain friends so you both can make sure you are still parents and still doing your part to bring up your child the right way. its a team thing no matter if you are a couple or not! dont make the child suffer because of both of your problems. if you are in love with him why is the relationship sour? seek counseling.
2007-08-24 09:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you and your child. Sorry. Sometimes people grow apart, his interest may have changed, something in his life is not going right, it could be a lot of things. Try and sit down with him and talk. Ask him how his day is. Make it about him, not you. When he starts opening up, let him know how much you love him, bring some spark back into the relationship. Good luck to you and both of yours child.
2007-08-24 09:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily me and my ex purely known because it quits lower back in November. We quite have been given alongside, till we initiate up blaming one yet another approximately previous errors and why we broke up interior the 1st place. It became into all sturdy for the 1st month and then his old methods crept lower back up. we've a 4 a million/2 year old son. i assume I chosen to get lower back with him via fact he's his father and that i needed our son to have us the two interior the comparable abode, and that i do love him dearly, yet no longer in love. I additionally could no longer undergo to work out him with somebody else. have confidence me an excellent variety of the time human beings do no longer substitute without some extreme help, and what probable have been given on your nerves previously gets on your nerves lower back. i know it incredibly is annoying to enable pass, I cried once I informed my ex it wasn't going to artwork via fact i needed it so undesirable and he agreed and that i did no longer prefer to maintain complicated my son like daddy became into going to be there, yet it became into superb to work out us all jointly for a warm minute, yet he extremely did no longer have us as his #a million precedence and that i could no longer undergo to work out my son and my self dissapointed lower back. yet that became into my tale, your guy ought to be diverse, if he has his priorities so as, kinfolk first and a few counseling, you adult males could be o.k..
2016-11-13 08:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking is the key to all
2007-08-24 09:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by lee b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is banging a stripper
2007-08-24 10:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋