Hey, ladies, did the relationship that YOU initiated last ...or did it end terribly?

Question

I'm old fashioned. I think a woman is supposed to be found, but first be FINDABLE (know what the guy you desire ... desires in a woman, etc...) not be out there looking for a guy, like miss MyaMya, for example, or Madonna putting ads in the New York Times and what not...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=25H5K6zX8iM

I'm not judging, but I don't see this going well at all, but like I said, I'm old fashioned. If a guy's too shy to step to me, it is period point blank NOT gonna work. Tell me what you think?

Answer 1

With my fiancee, I more or less initiated the relationship. I asked him out on dates, though he was the one to officially ask me to be his girlfriend. It has really worked out for me. Guys might need some encouragement and can't be required to choose all the time otherwise we might not get what we want.