What should I do?

Question

Ok...there is this girl. I consider her my "friend"...I'm not that close to her, but we talk pretty often, and she emails me a million times a day. lol. Here's the problem. She's a jealous, backstabbing and rude person. For example, if I get a certain cd, she runs out to the store the minute she hears I got it and gets it. When I talk to my boyfriend who she likes, she gets all jealous and comes over, pushes me out of the way and starts talking to him. She's always acting like he's gonna dump me and go out with her just because she's jealous of us. And she's always making rude remarks. She talks about other friends of mine behind their backs, and I don't like it. Her parents don't do anything about it, even though they know what she does and how she acts. The only reason I consider her my "friend" is because she confided in me one time, and I feel like I need to help her. What should I do? Should I talk to her? HELP!!!!!!!!!! Thanks. Oh yeah...I'm 16 and she's 13.

Answer 1

SHES 13 YO
YOU GOT OTHER THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT
THAT THIRTEEN YEAR OLD NEEDS TO FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO DO
STAY FRIENDS WIT HER BUT TALK TO HER ABOUT IT BE SMOOTH WIT IT
AND IF YOU KNOW YA WAY PRETTY THEN HER DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT HER STEALING YOUR MAN

Answer 2

holy crap 13, when you described her i was like AW HECKS NAWHHHH then you said she was 13. yeah seems like a immature thing to do. ummmmm, well just because she helped you before doesn't mean you should give up your boyfriend to help her out. i mean it is YOUR boyfriend. and if she were really your friend she shouldn't compete with you like how she buys whatever cd you buy. sounds to me shes trying to be better or be somewhat like you just to get to your boyfriend. its understandable that she can act this way because shes so much younger than you, you can TRY talking to her, but during her phase she wouldn't really understand your point of view and feel that she has every right to think that you and your boyfriend arn't meant to be. try finding a different guy for her, or better yet don't let her know when you're hanging out with your boyfriend. the less she sees your boyfriend or talks to him, the less interested she might be.

Answer 3

If no one is telling her how stupid she act, she will think that she's doing nothing wrong and act the same way. It's either you confront her and risk your friendship, or be her friend with her acting this way. Just tell her straight up. She's still young and I'm sure she can handle it. She's not even worth being your friend if that's how she act. I for once, wouldn't care about her if that's the way she treat me. No respect from another person equals no respect from me.

Answer 4

Big age difference she sounds very immature and no someone who I would consider a friend. She is going through a 13 year old stage that you don't need to be a part of. Let it go she doesn't seem like a friend to me.

Answer 5

How long are you going to put up with her behavior, she is no friend of yours. You are allowing her to treat her this way - have you no self respect? She is a taker not a contributor - with little respect for you or others. Perhaps her parents should be calmly advised about her behavior, or ultimately she will end up alone. Stop feeling this misguided loyalty for her and take affirmative action.

Answer 6

i know you two had to be young. because this situation sounds like some children. you are 16 you are too old to have a 13 yr old your friend. why dont you find some new friends. dont feel pity for her just because you feellike you have to help her or what not if you are unhappy with what she does leave her alone. duh! theres million of friends out there. why stress yourself out over one person? she does sound jelous and immature she really needs to get a life. dont tell her about what you are doing so she can comeover and ruin things! let her know how you feel and that you dont like what she is doing if you dont tell her only things will get worse trust me! good luck

Answer 7

I think you should calmly talk to her about the way she acts, if she continues to do the same thing, then find a new friend. If she was really your friend, she wouldn't be acting like that.

Answer 8

Get rid of her, asap. Totally stop communicating with her, block her from all your email/IM stuff, delete her cell phone number and ignore her.

She's nothing but bad juju for you and NO FRIEND.

Answer 9

yep, get rid of her is the right thing to do, and she needs to chill out, that's how people get hurt, by talking behind backs. Good luck to you!!!

Answer 10

yeah tell her to back of bi tch hes mine, jk jk ummm say get your own man, that is near your age. and quit talking behind peoples back *name here*, you wouldn't like people talking behind your back would you.