you go away w/him? It's been almost 4 months.... He asked me to go to Aruba... I do trust him. what do you think?
2007-08-24 09:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be scared to, its to hard to trust people these days, 4 months isnt to long in knowing someone, it takes at least a year to get to know someone. Go with your intuition, if you have any doubts then I would not go, especially out of the country
2007-08-24 09:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Savannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have screwed his brains out the first night. Aruba would be a down payment for services rendered. By the end of the 4th month, I would have already been around the world. Why are you taking so long?
2007-08-24 18:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by sdcashman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go out of the country with a man that you hardly know. Go somewhere close first and save the aruba trip for your 1yr anniversary.
2007-08-24 17:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spent a lot of time together in those four months?!? Four months can be a long time if you've really taken the time to get to know him. If so, and you do trust him...Go for it! As with ANY relationship or trip, please make someone aware of your whereabouts, and definately leave contact information...but only YOU know if you know him well enough. It could be a blast!
You don't need a chaperone by any chance, do ya? hehe...
2007-08-24 16:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FYI, Aruba is very romantic. There isnt much to do there but romance seems to be everywhere. He's either trying to get some if he hasnt already or he's going to propose. MY ex invited me there and everyone told me he would propose but I didnt believe it. He did.
Good luck!
2007-08-24 16:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO!!! just make sure you are telling someone of your plans and your itinerary. and make sure you have possession of your roundtrip ticket at all times. just in case.
but then i moved in with my husband before we were even boyfriend and girlfriend. one night and i never left. 2 months later and we were already trying to have a baby. when you know....you know.
2007-08-24 16:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Isabella S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are doing him now here than why would it be any different to do him away from home. or do you mean he is offering you this trip as a bribe that he hopes you do him? are you for sale? LOCATION IS NOT THE QUESTION in this situation
2007-08-24 16:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for a very first trip -- I think I would pick a place that does not take you out of the country
2007-08-24 16:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, why not. its 4 mos. already. just tell plenty of people where you'll be and with whom.
might be a serial killer
2007-08-24 16:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by emjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you haven't slept with him yet?
2007-08-24 16:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋